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GonnaLearnThis2day t1_j9l2i7h wrote
Reply to comment by Trick-Two497 in I don’t want this to sound egotistical, but how can I tell if my reading comprehension is better than my friends? Or if my taste in books is just different? by [deleted]
props for doing the research!
teachertraveler1 t1_j9l2h9b wrote
Reply to Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
Thank you for attempting to show care for your group and honor the fact that people ought to be able to chose what they are exposed to. It feels terrible to invest time and effort into a book and then realize you can't finish it due to content. No one gets a gold star for being some uneffected hard nut of a person.
Probably your best bet is to look at a wide variety of reviews and see what themes pop up. But even then it depends on the perspective of the reviewer.
There's a show that's been getting lots of buzz and based on reviews I was excited to watch. What no one mentioned was that the entire first episode was on child abuse images 😱 I noped right out. Why did no one think to mention it?
gwi1785 t1_j9l1oc9 wrote
Reply to Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
do you know the readers or is it totaly virtual?
i never understood what tfat trigger warning nonsense is goud for.
healthy nurmal adults should be able to step outside their comfort zone and get thwir own opinion.
but your group is special ..
however you can' t foresee or shield everybody and putting down a book when it gets too much should be easy.
if you have to take on this responsibility its probably best to suggest books you have read although what might trigger one person often is guesswork (eg. what is excessive violence? swearing?).
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sept_douleurs t1_j9l1el6 wrote
Reply to comment by Eco_Blurb in Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
To play Devil’s advocate: one very well could have PTSD triggered by those things if those things were involved in their traumatic experience. Triggers can get incredibly specific—someone might have PTSD triggered by the scent of body wash their abusive ex used or by the song that was playing on the radio right before a near fatal car crash, even though neither m of those things are remotely bad in and of themselves.
TeazieBreezie OP t1_j9l16sj wrote
Reply to comment by CrazyCatLady108 in Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
Ok ty
CrazyCatLady108 t1_j9l1303 wrote
Reply to Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
Hi there. Your post would be better asked in our Simple Questions thread. It helps us keep the main subreddit focused around broader discussion rather topics which only apply to an individual. Thank you!
Curious_Star_ t1_j9l0vfw wrote
Reply to comment by Eco_Blurb in Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
Yep, I think you’re right.
TeazieBreezie OP t1_j9l0txz wrote
Reply to comment by MLTDione in Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
Thank you very much!
TeazieBreezie OP t1_j9l0oua wrote
Reply to comment by Eco_Blurb in Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
Wow. First and last time I seek advice from r/books. Y’all rude as hell
Curious_Star_ t1_j9l0o1f wrote
Reply to comment by TeazieBreezie in Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
You’re still not properly answering the other commenter’s questions. They were just confused about how poop is a trigger for you since triggers are usually more serious things like sexual assault or other violence. You said trigger warnings ARE only for serious things but then continued to talk about how you need a trigger warning for poop. See why we’re confused?
Like I said, I know that sometimes people have really weird triggers that wouldn’t be thought of as triggering at all to someone else, so if it genuinely is a trigger for you, I’m sorry. But it seems like you just don’t like reading about it instead of it being an actual trigger.
MLTDione t1_j9l0mqm wrote
Reply to Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
Doesthedogdie.com should be able to help you sometimes. Edit: my bad, not sure if it has books or not!
Duffman66CMU t1_j9l0lfh wrote
Reply to comment by 2Responsible in The Art of the Short Story is such a joy to read. by StrawberryFields_
Sounds like many authors. Who is the editor?
Eco_Blurb t1_j9l0gj0 wrote
Reply to comment by Curious_Star_ in Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
I think OP just doesn’t really understand what a trigger is and what it means. Which is ok, everyone has to start somewhere. But I think OP should have said that they do not get triggered and stopped it there. They get a bit grossed out at certain things — unless they have PTSD from maggots and poop which I doubt it
TeazieBreezie OP t1_j9l0d35 wrote
Reply to comment by LittleSillyBee in Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
No one seems to know any sites anyways
NoisyCats t1_j9l0c7p wrote
Reply to I don’t want this to sound egotistical, but how can I tell if my reading comprehension is better than my friends? Or if my taste in books is just different? by [deleted]
Difficult? Not difficult? Who cares? 🤷🏼 I’ve read quite a few classics that while considered high brow, intellectual, difficult, whatever, I thought they were boring as hell but others found very moving.
TeazieBreezie OP t1_j9l0760 wrote
Reply to comment by marcyhidesinphotos in Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
Accredited? I don’t know. Official? Yes. It works with the state department of mental health and does things from group homes and housing to programs, transportation etc.
We were told ahead of time that if the clinician was to run a book club then we had to keep it tame
WritingJedi t1_j9l06f2 wrote
Reply to comment by cMeeber in Flowers in the attic by Curve-Master
I was imagining those first edition full paperbacks that are HARD to find, because it was a pretty small print run.
LittleSillyBee t1_j9l055c wrote
Reply to Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
I would not put any triggers on either 7 lives of Evelyn Hugo and A Man called Ove. I can't imagine being in a book club that needed trigger warnings on books, it takes away a huge variety of books, should be up to the individual to research if they want to step back and not read by doing their own research on potential warnings.
cMeeber t1_j9kzu5d wrote
Reply to comment by WritingJedi in Flowers in the attic by Curve-Master
Never said they were first editions. I have no idea. Looking at eBay for the ones that had the same covers I had there’s a whole bunch of them and no more than $3-$5 each. These books were highly mass produced, I doubt they’re worth much. You see several at every thrift shop.
coffeebaghs OP t1_j9kzrd8 wrote
Reply to comment by icon58 in Bookly is Amazing by coffeebaghs
nature, cafe, the train. i should've expanded on that 😅
marcyhidesinphotos t1_j9kzr4n wrote
Reply to Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
Is this an accredited mental health program? Because the official stance of the American Psychological Association is that trigger warnings are at best pointless and at worst harmful https://www.psychologicalscience.org/news/releases/trigger-warnings-fail-to-help.html
TeazieBreezie OP t1_j9kzo0d wrote
Reply to comment by Curious_Star_ in Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
You’re confusing the gravity of a situation with whether it triggers someone or not.
Nowhere did I say that poop is worse than rape. That is such a weird take-away to me.
I said “these are the only things that trigger me” because they’re obscure aka I’ve never cared about them being listed before.
I am asking for sites to help me find stuff for other people, not me.
icon58 t1_j9kzeuk wrote
Reply to Bookly is Amazing by coffeebaghs
What do you mean background noise?
TeazieBreezie OP t1_j9l2k9e wrote
Reply to comment by gwi1785 in Trigger warnings by TeazieBreezie
>healthy nurmal adults should be able to step outside their comfort zone
I did say this was part of a mental health program, so I’m not looking for trigger warnings for “healthy normal adults”
While I can appreciate an opposing opinion, I wasn’t asking for one. I was looking for a site. Thank you though