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WendellSanders01 OP t1_j8vg0ph wrote

Ah, I definitely know what you mean. Something similar like that happened to me. One of my first assignments in school was to write a poem. I didn't want to write a poem so I tried to fake it, but then eventually I ended up really enjoying writing poetry for real. Anyway, that sounds like such a memorable experience.

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WendellSanders01 OP t1_j8vf51x wrote

Oh yes, I've heard that helps, keeping it under something heavy. A few years ago I got stuck in a rain storm and I had a book of poetry with me, I tried to dry it out as best as I could without really knowing what I was doing. Unfortunately the pages have a rippled texture now. Anyway, such a great story how you found that book.

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besssjay t1_j8vd1yb wrote

Please don't bother, they're massively overrated. There's much better "magical boarding school" fantasy out there. The world-building and writing in HP are really shoddy. A lot of the characters represent unexamined stereotypes about Jewish people, POC, and fat people. Not to mention the author is a virulent transphobe who is using her wealth and power to actively lobby for harmful policies. If you missed the Harry Potter nostalgia train, don't buy a ticket now.

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julieannie t1_j8v35wo wrote

My library system has a Charing Cross branch and its the only one that has it in stock. And by in stock, I mean always in use. One of these days I’ll put a hold on it but I keep meaning to visit every library branch and I thought it would make the best of reasons to make that trip if I could just get the book on the shelf when I go.

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ithinkerno t1_j8v0r78 wrote

Can someone spoil White Oleander for me?

I started out really interested in the story and where it was going, but I am really struggling with Astrid and Ray's relationship. As it was happening it was completely romanticized but I figured the author would circle back and show the wrongness of it. So far that hasn't happened and it has made me totally uncomfortable with the book. Does the author address this at any point?

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ZeMastor t1_j8uyjc2 wrote

The poster had clarified that they were talking about Scotland as the place where child abuse by teachers and parents and apparently, many people were too poor to buy burgers and pizza for their kids lasted even into the 1970's.

Yes, there was a recession in the 70's, as well as an Energy Crisis and a gas shortage. But compared to today, with homeless camps parked on the sidewalks of every major city, those were the good times. My personal recollection was that we always had food, and burger, or family Sunday night out at a restaurant was still a thing. Buying class rings, or going on major field trips (hundreds of miles away) that cost out-of-pocket were out of the question though.

So how was your 70's life experience?

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Disparition_2022 t1_j8uv8w9 wrote

The post-war baby boom was primarily in the late 1940's and early 1950's. Right after WW2, hence the name, although technically it lasted until the early 60's.

There was very famously a major economic recession starting in 1973 that lasted years and affected a huge number of people. The 70's in general was absolutely not a time of prosperity, it was a time of economic hardship for much of the country and is quite famous for that downturn.

Great for you that no one you knew couldn't afford to go out to eat, but yes it was absolutely a time when a ton of people had to scrimp and save.

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noodletune t1_j8uudzl wrote

Is there a 1-step way to add/rate/date a book on Goodreads (desktop)?

Goodreads recently changed, and the functionality now seems to be way worse than it used to be.

I used to be able to type in an ISBN and it would pull up the book I wanted, and right there, I could put in my rating of the book and the date that I finished it.

Now I can't figure out how to do this without going to multiple pages, and it's a big hassle to find what I need.

Please help! Thanks.

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Automatic_Memory212 t1_j8ur8zn wrote

Yes.

Children basically were considered “chattel” who had no rights that adults were bound to respect.

Familial love (if they were lucky enough to have it!) was the only thing protecting children from being enslaved, beaten, submitted to sex work, and murdered in the street.

And children still don’t have many rights, to this day.

Look at the fact that only in the last 40 years has child abuse and neglect become an actual crime people can be charged with.

Look at the fact that in many cultures, it’s still considered perfectly acceptable for parents to beat their children as a form of discipline.

And look at the fact that in many cultures, it’s still considered perfectly normal to mutilate children, as part of “religious observances.”

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assignaname t1_j8unif3 wrote

I requested a book that was easy to consume/somewhat fast and purely lighthearted and positive in the suggest me a book sub and someone suggested this. It's the one I chose due to being readily available and on audiobook (so I can do chores and such while I listen) and it did NOT disappoint.

I absolutely adored it. It was funny without being overly comedic and forced. It was overall just pleasant and heartwarming. It made me laugh, it made me cry, I learned some things, I have possibly no complaints.

As someone who works completely remote it even really resonated that they were so far apart and had such a close relationship within the context of their interactions without having met in person.

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