Recent comments in /f/Maine

here2notGetfined t1_j9acg0l wrote

I've been here visiting for the last two months while my fiancé is doing a travel nursing contract at eastern Maine medical and I have to say I love it! Originally from PA, and I would love to come back to the area in the summer time.

Acadia is so nice only an hour and change away, Portland two hours... it's been great. The breweries are awesome, the people are so nice, and the hiking and trails around here are beautiful.

So, from a first time visitor, I have to say, it's been great!

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Frecklesgalore767 t1_j9abzym wrote

Does your employer have an employee assistance program (EAP)? Many do and they can be helpful in finding a good therapist. It’s usually an 800# that you call and tell them what you’re looking for and what area. They’ll give you contacts that are covered under your plan. Often the first 1-3 visits are no charge to you - the program covers it. If you don’t find a good match you can call back EAP and get another contact to try. Good luck!

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GuppyGB t1_j9ab8w0 wrote

I didn't see that when I played varsity soccer in HS. Everyone showed up, even in summer. It was always bad coaching if there was an issue. Coaches would be replaced frequently. They would pick favorites who would always end up choking when it mattered most or got reckless fouls. We had coaches who prioritized scrimmages over technique building exercises. We had few players with natural talent and years of experience, a lot of players with great physical ability but bad technique and response to gameplay, and the last 20% was all kids who just wanted to kick the ball really hard from half field. So you could blame the players, but the coaches didn't spend enough time teaching kids how to actually make plays and the ball forward. It just felt like they were praying for the same 3 kids to score every game and as soon as we conceded one goal they would start subbing fully capable players.

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Groundbreakingup t1_j9aaf1i wrote

I feel that the isolation as you describe in the second sentence is an issue rather than a benefit. While Bangor has most things for life, that’s not how people especially young people live. People like variations around, rather than a small collection of all within a single area. Think about UNH. You find nature if you go north, and you have Boston if you go south for about an hour. Rural areas are around, so is the ocean:. That’s what people like.

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shenshenw t1_j9aa14s wrote

Widdershins in Norway often has old medical supplies and taxidermy. The owner loves offbeat stuff like that. He makes things inspired by old sci-fi movies, so you can sometimes find ray guns and phasers in the shop, too.

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Cookfuforu3 t1_j9aa0j5 wrote

If you wanna find the culture in Bangor, you have to follow the students from UM (Orono) they usually set the tone of events near Bangor . As a chef with a well reputed restaurant (I don’t live in Bangor, but I visit quite often) I got to say the food is not bad up there either. And Acadia national park is so very close !

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DidDunMegasploded t1_j9a8u35 wrote

Yes you are an ableist, whether you are autistic and have the medical papers to prove it or don't and are just lying on the Internet. You can insinuate you aren't an ableist all you want, but all you're doing is making yourself out to be a complete idiot. It's a lose-lose situation.

There are a million words in the English dictionary to use and yet you go right for the word that has been turned into a hateful slur without even considering any other words. Says quite a lot about you without anyone even needing to engage with you--mainly that you are an ableist asshole that people should stay far the fuck away from.

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bor-harbar t1_j9a7wpl wrote

Just my two cents but i’d say pick someone and have a conversation. If it doesn’t feel right you can let them know and they will understand without any hard feelings. I’ll also add that it can be difficult to find people with openings right now but keep at it and I think you’ll be glad you did.

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planningcalendar t1_j9a7tc4 wrote

I work in a high school. It's the kids. They go out for a sport but have no interest in getting in shape to play it. They show up to practice when it's convenient. Their parents pull them out of school to do something else on a whim. They work or hang out instead. They are not competitive. They don't view sports the same way their grandparents did and most simply are not interested.

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GoUBears t1_j9a69ze wrote

Under-investment in public universities is rampant in New England thanks to the Ivies, NESCAC, and other quality private institutions. However, Maine has the short end of that stick, with three small schools totaling ~6k, 85% from out of state. Hopefully that will prompt an administration to prioritize enhancing UMO and USM sooner than later.

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