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seeyoubythesea t1_j9adj45 wrote
Reply to comment by StrikingExamination6 in What’s killing high school athletics? I think it’s AAU. by Parrothead1970
Noticed by who? The nba🤣
rofopp t1_j9adij4 wrote
Reply to comment by JimBones31 in What’s up with Bangor? by EmeraldMoose12
It has one. Eimskip
nastyhobbitses1 t1_j9adc7f wrote
Reply to comment by ASeluke87 in What’s up with Bangor? by EmeraldMoose12
Ooh nice, I’ll have to stop by
JimBones31 t1_j9ad5p7 wrote
here2notGetfined t1_j9acg0l wrote
Reply to What’s up with Bangor? by EmeraldMoose12
I've been here visiting for the last two months while my fiancé is doing a travel nursing contract at eastern Maine medical and I have to say I love it! Originally from PA, and I would love to come back to the area in the summer time.
Acadia is so nice only an hour and change away, Portland two hours... it's been great. The breweries are awesome, the people are so nice, and the hiking and trails around here are beautiful.
So, from a first time visitor, I have to say, it's been great!
CeruleanBovine OP t1_j9acebs wrote
Reply to comment by Frecklesgalore767 in Looking for Therapist recommendations by CeruleanBovine
That’s a good question. They probably do offer one, I’ve just never looked into it. Thanks for the suggestion
ASeluke87 t1_j9acb00 wrote
Reply to comment by nastyhobbitses1 in What’s up with Bangor? by EmeraldMoose12
It's open in Bangor now! Planning to visit soon!
Starboard_Pete t1_j9acaw1 wrote
Reply to Trail Cam Treasure by Perfect-Librarian895
Nice shot and great quality!! I had one on my trail cam in the late fall, but it blended in pretty well with the leaves.
CeruleanBovine OP t1_j9ac2t7 wrote
Reply to comment by bor-harbar in Looking for Therapist recommendations by CeruleanBovine
Yes the difficulty these days is that a lot of therapists are not accepting new patients. My old one is full and I’ve had some difficulty finding another. Just figured I’d get some recommendations rather than scrolling through lists of people.
Frecklesgalore767 t1_j9abzym wrote
Reply to Looking for Therapist recommendations by CeruleanBovine
Does your employer have an employee assistance program (EAP)? Many do and they can be helpful in finding a good therapist. It’s usually an 800# that you call and tell them what you’re looking for and what area. They’ll give you contacts that are covered under your plan. Often the first 1-3 visits are no charge to you - the program covers it. If you don’t find a good match you can call back EAP and get another contact to try. Good luck!
GuppyGB t1_j9ab8w0 wrote
Reply to comment by planningcalendar in What’s killing high school athletics? I think it’s AAU. by Parrothead1970
I didn't see that when I played varsity soccer in HS. Everyone showed up, even in summer. It was always bad coaching if there was an issue. Coaches would be replaced frequently. They would pick favorites who would always end up choking when it mattered most or got reckless fouls. We had coaches who prioritized scrimmages over technique building exercises. We had few players with natural talent and years of experience, a lot of players with great physical ability but bad technique and response to gameplay, and the last 20% was all kids who just wanted to kick the ball really hard from half field. So you could blame the players, but the coaches didn't spend enough time teaching kids how to actually make plays and the ball forward. It just felt like they were praying for the same 3 kids to score every game and as soon as we conceded one goal they would start subbing fully capable players.
raggedtoad t1_j9aai58 wrote
Reply to comment by biglymonies in What’s up with Bangor? by EmeraldMoose12
There it is!
Yes, people actually believe building more quality housing units is bad for working class Mainers.
Groundbreakingup t1_j9aaf1i wrote
Reply to What’s up with Bangor? by EmeraldMoose12
I feel that the isolation as you describe in the second sentence is an issue rather than a benefit. While Bangor has most things for life, that’s not how people especially young people live. People like variations around, rather than a small collection of all within a single area. Think about UNH. You find nature if you go north, and you have Boston if you go south for about an hour. Rural areas are around, so is the ocean:. That’s what people like.
Cookfuforu3 t1_j9aa1tm wrote
Reply to comment by Tribute2Johnny in What’s up with Bangor? by EmeraldMoose12
Knapps !!! that brings back some memories
shenshenw t1_j9aa14s wrote
Reply to Best oddity shops in Maine by RestingBitchFacee
Widdershins in Norway often has old medical supplies and taxidermy. The owner loves offbeat stuff like that. He makes things inspired by old sci-fi movies, so you can sometimes find ray guns and phasers in the shop, too.
Cookfuforu3 t1_j9aa0j5 wrote
Reply to What’s up with Bangor? by EmeraldMoose12
If you wanna find the culture in Bangor, you have to follow the students from UM (Orono) they usually set the tone of events near Bangor . As a chef with a well reputed restaurant (I don’t live in Bangor, but I visit quite often) I got to say the food is not bad up there either. And Acadia national park is so very close !
Successful_Border321 t1_j9a9rjj wrote
Reply to comment by Loose_Stools in What’s up with Bangor? by EmeraldMoose12
My point was that most people who live/have lived out west don’t view 4 hours as too long a drive to get anywhere.
biglymonies t1_j9a9czi wrote
Reply to comment by raggedtoad in What’s up with Bangor? by EmeraldMoose12
Oh fuck, you weren't kidding
DidDunMegasploded t1_j9a8u35 wrote
Reply to comment by Flimsy_Perception_94 in Portland area female dj's? by frankandbeans12
Yes you are an ableist, whether you are autistic and have the medical papers to prove it or don't and are just lying on the Internet. You can insinuate you aren't an ableist all you want, but all you're doing is making yourself out to be a complete idiot. It's a lose-lose situation.
There are a million words in the English dictionary to use and yet you go right for the word that has been turned into a hateful slur without even considering any other words. Says quite a lot about you without anyone even needing to engage with you--mainly that you are an ableist asshole that people should stay far the fuck away from.
Gary_busey_syndrome t1_j9a8pwy wrote
Reply to What’s up with Bangor? by EmeraldMoose12
Having lived in both towns, Id rather ride a bike in Bangor than Portland any day.
bor-harbar t1_j9a7wpl wrote
Reply to Looking for Therapist recommendations by CeruleanBovine
Just my two cents but i’d say pick someone and have a conversation. If it doesn’t feel right you can let them know and they will understand without any hard feelings. I’ll also add that it can be difficult to find people with openings right now but keep at it and I think you’ll be glad you did.
planningcalendar t1_j9a7tc4 wrote
I work in a high school. It's the kids. They go out for a sport but have no interest in getting in shape to play it. They show up to practice when it's convenient. Their parents pull them out of school to do something else on a whim. They work or hang out instead. They are not competitive. They don't view sports the same way their grandparents did and most simply are not interested.
ouchibitmytongue t1_j9a7rcg wrote
Reply to Looking for Therapist recommendations by CeruleanBovine
Just sent you a PM.
GoUBears t1_j9a69ze wrote
Reply to comment by lucidlilacdream in What’s up with Bangor? by EmeraldMoose12
Under-investment in public universities is rampant in New England thanks to the Ivies, NESCAC, and other quality private institutions. However, Maine has the short end of that stick, with three small schools totaling ~6k, 85% from out of state. Hopefully that will prompt an administration to prioritize enhancing UMO and USM sooner than later.
rofopp t1_j9adtx1 wrote
Reply to comment by ptmtp26 in What’s up with Bangor? by EmeraldMoose12
Mostly because anyone with real talent in administration takes the job as a resume builder for a real job in public education I. The Midwest.