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ardrarian t1_iydqwnk wrote

I read your other comments and I share some of your qualities like avoidant attachment for one.

Even though I sometimes ignore this, I do truly believe it: if the relationship was meant to be, then you wouldn't have had any doubts.

I've been in relationships where I had no doubts at the beginning. It happens. Those are the good ones. One of mine lasted 9 years.

Then I've dated people where I had doubts but really wanted to make it work, and it never ends well.

You're likely to feel some questioning or regret whenever breaking up with someone over some vague doubts because it's not something obvious like being cheated on. It's tricky but important to realize the doubts will probably never go away and you'll end up wasting a lot of time.

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keepthetips t1_iydq391 wrote

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sponger67 t1_iydpe1a wrote

This.... so much this.... And exactly for the reason stated... My best friend for most of my life, hated having his pocket taken, or being in any pic moment etc... he got really sick, really suddenly, and passed away after fighting for 64 days. We had lots of photos, but nowhere near the amount we could have had. I had adopted the same mentality before he had gotten sick. I have a diff mentality these days, as I know I won't always be here, and hopefully my parents don't outlive me, but for siblings and my neieces and nephews, but hopefully that went be for some time and they won't need pics, cuz they'll have memories of stuff we did together.

Think twice about it if u happen to hate having ur pic taken, at least for family events, holidays and birthdays. Promise you will be happy you did.

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keepthetips t1_iydohmq wrote

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TheCelestialEquation t1_iydnqh7 wrote

Also, if you hate having your picture taken because of the way you look:

Either you'll look better one day and you'll get to see how far youve come, or you'll look older and get to be reminded of what you had. It's sort of a win win.

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