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fulanomengano t1_ja6eymm wrote

You didn’t mention a single word about apologizing. If you really are a good person and want to feel better, you would have realized that any steps you took to mend your mistakes is the most important thing to mention. Not your half ass therapy or religion or whatever. Those are for your own benefit, not for the benefit of the people you hurt. Since you are not getting it, it kinds of confirms my assessment.

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magdeedz OP t1_ja6ei6v wrote

That’s a pretty ignorant comment to have made in my opinion. You made that assumption off of an incredibly insignificant amount of knowledge about me, or the kind of person I am, OR the efforts I’ve made since being sober to fix things. Who the fuck are you to tell me that I haven’t apologized? That I haven’t made efforts to better the lives of those I’ve hurt in the past? All because I didn’t mention that in my r/LIFEPROTIP request post? (Emphasis on the “request” part) So why do you even comment?

To each their own I guess?

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keepthetips t1_ja6ee1r wrote

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If you think that this is great advice to improve your life, please upvote. If you think this doesn't help you in any way, please downvote. If you don't care, leave it for the others to decide.

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lakehop t1_ja6e068 wrote

In future … before you wash it, put it under a cold tap, rub bar soap on the stain, then rub vigorously (fabric on fabric - either two stained parts, or stained and unstained). Rinse, repeat. Then turn around to the other side of the fabric, rub soap, rub fabric vigorously again (ie repeat). This should get rid of at least 90% of it - repeat again if needed.

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hareemKunt t1_ja6d0vk wrote

When my playing career ended I knew I wanted to coach . Thankfully for me, it instantly filled the void and I enjoy coaching more then I did playing . Find something ro fill your competitive void while also trying new things you couldn’t do while you played, for me that was skiing, and travelling . Wish you all the best

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fulanomengano t1_ja6ctiz wrote

A sweet person that wants to feel better without taking any steps to mend their mistakes or apologize for the awful things they did? Instead of taking the steps to feel better, they just want something to “forget” what they did. The type of behaviour that gets people into drugs.

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fulanomengano t1_ja6cguf wrote

You sound like a terrible person, only caring about yourself. You are trying to avoid feeling guilty but you don’t mention any effort on fixing your mistakes, or apologize to people you hurt and find can you do to compensate for what you did to them. Maybe you should feel guilty.

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