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Hayben906 t1_j9zy8gj wrote

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Hazel-Laurensanity t1_j9zx4n0 wrote

Ok but to actually answer the question just in case it helps someone at some point.

  1. feigning eye contact: look at their nose. If they're close enough, figure out what color their eyes are. How many times have they adjusted glasses/hair/whatever but always stick to something above the neck so you don't look like a cracked out dragula butchering the conversation partner with your eyes.
  2. aside from their voice, try to see what else you can hear and what's causing the noise. If it's annoying enough, take advantage of the next pause to mention needing to check out whatever it was.

I could.go on but my phone is about to die and honestly, ATLA had a spirit world monster that required absolute emotionlessness to face it without getting your face stolen so..I recommend trying to find at least that episode since it goes more in detail and stuff.

Also this is not meant to further one's desire for social withdrawal or other isolationist tendencies, nor is it intend for use with any illegal activities or otherwise harmful objectives. This is, at best, an attempt at acting advice,.emotional preservation assistance, and a wedge to drive between yourself island inherent toxicity of others. I really agree with almost everyone suggesting seeking out a professional, but I also understand that for one reason or another, that's not always an option for everyone. Instead, I suggest you use any advice given here for voiding emotional expression as an accessibility aid and not a strategy in and of itself. I hope this helps, and I sincerely hope things get better for you, OP:)

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the_original_Retro t1_j9zwqeg wrote

LPT: If you want to get punched or slapped, do that.

Betting OP never actually did this themselves, they're just advising other people to do a /r/shittylifeprotips entry.

LPT: If you want a lower probability of getting punched or slapped, ask "Pardon me, would you mind taking that off of speakerphone?", or just walk away to a different place if that's possible.

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keepthetips t1_j9zw3w8 wrote

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Absolei t1_j9zv9xf wrote

I don't think that's the situations OP is in. Honestly, it just sounds like they're a sensitive person who really feels things deeply and in consequence, they show their emotions more often than others. This is very much not bad! It just means that they've got higher empathy and stuff. These other people are the ones in the wrong and you're acting like them.

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gxbcab t1_j9zv7mi wrote

Find a large laundromat with extra machines and then just do all your loads at once. I used to go to a laundromat that had about 50 machines, and I could usually do 3 loads at once and get all of my laundry done in a couple hours. Just know it gets expensive. I believe they charged me $8 per load pre-COVID.

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