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Bigfops t1_j9zmcv2 wrote

Ok, it’s spelled correctly in the title and I bet you got a red, squiggly underline when you typed it, how did you fuck it up? It’s a ‘U’ masrUrbation. Learn it, use it.

Sorry, pet peeve.

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thetoastler t1_j9zksss wrote

I'd rather just turn the radio up to make the noises go away, if they're loud enough that I can hear them over the music or feel something physically wrong through the floor I'll close the windows to make it even harder to hear.

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docmad89 t1_j9zkq9z wrote

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gnosis_carmot t1_j9zki0f wrote

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GaiaBeauty t1_j9zipfn wrote

No one wants to deal with someone crying during a time of crisis????? Really, person?? Speak for yourself.

i am one of those, if privileged enough to be in someone’s space as they cry, i will just hold them and listen.

in my rare times of crying i would hope that someone comes and hold my hand as i express myself. and they have. they don’t need to say anything. just be there. and there, they are.

There is something to be said to feel safe enough to express emotions, with someone.

If YOU can’t handle someone’s crying, just say that.

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ImTuTuToo t1_j9zic5n wrote

I am NOT a psychologist, but we might share the same type of personality: Empathetic.
My advice is to seek professional advice. Do not try and hold your emotions inside of yourself! Speaking from personal experience, a truly sensitive, honest individual who “holds in” their emotions will manifest other physical illnesses. Like high blood pressure. I have measured this in real time! It certainly isn’t “normal” to cry and be “so sensitive”, but it is probably a great and rather precious rare gift to understand, and Develop this gift by seeking professional help. I do hope you find happiness in your journey.

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StoneTemplePilates t1_j9zhce8 wrote

Lol, that pretty much is how it works, though. Not that it's quick or easy, not at all, but consciously and consistently making a decision to let go of the things that cause you anxiety is literally one of the best ways to train your brain to work differently beyond medication.

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