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lil_groundbeef t1_j9zgtos wrote

I’m just going to say as an emotionally in tuned person myself, the best thing I ever did was experiment with psychedelic mushrooms. Not saying they’re for you, but I’m saying they helped me significantly with processing emotions. It all boils down to how you let things effect you. You can either care greatly or not give a fuck. The mushrooms helped me find it within myself to not let things effect me so greatly. I couldn’t have done it without them. They changed my life for the better. They effect everybody differently and can trigger psychosis etc so be mindful if you have a family history of any mental issues like that if you do decide to try them for yourself.

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Stabfacenotback t1_j9zfl3i wrote

I cry when I'm happy, when I laugh, when I'm sad, when I'm tired, when I'm frustrated. The sight of actual tears makes other people over react.

For me, it's simply biological. For the observer, it's shocking and borderline inappropriate. Why?

So I've gotten used to saying, "Just because there's tears, doesn't mean this is crushing my soul. I'm fine. Get over it." if they're calling me out and it's awkward.

If they're simply showing concern, I say, "Hallmark cards make me cry. Puppies and butterflies make me cry. Of course I can shed a tear upon hearing a perfect stranger met some sort of demise. I'm a crier and I'm not sorry."

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marimo2019 t1_j9zfah5 wrote

I was like this growing up and in my early 20s, but once I really understood that I had people who actually love me and supports me, my "sensitivity" got a lot better. It's important to know who actually matters in your life and who doesn't really (for example not being too attached to some "friends" who don't actually care about you). Sometimes it's really good just to remind yourself that some things don't matter to your life, and some things people say or think about you really don't matter. In my 30s I'm much better, now that I'm living with a very supportive loving boyfriend.

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incubusboy t1_j9zf2wa wrote

Let Ice cream soften in the refrigerator. 1-15 mins for a B&J or other pint, longer for a half gallon brick. Ice cream in a cup should be firm but as spoonable as custard. Serving hard frozen ice cream is a rookie mistake.

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CallMeNox99 t1_j9zf2d3 wrote

Are you kidding? Knowing the hour in the middle of the night it's better for me. Say that I go to the bathroom at 3:00 am then I look the hour and instead of "3:00 am? Oh no, I have only 3 hours of sleep now" is more like "Yeah! 3:00 am! I still have 3 hours of sleep!"

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TheVudoThatIdo t1_j9ze7e6 wrote

Have at least two weeks of underwear or more. (For ladies, having extra is always good.) You can look into laundry services if you can afford it and if it's available in your area where they wash and drop it off for you.

If at all possible, try going to the laundromat at odd times. When I had to go to the laundromat, I was lucky and had Mondays off and would go at around noon, and it was so much faster because no one was there.

It's a weird thing, but don't fold your clothes at the laundromat. Do that at home, It lowers the risk of bedbugs and lowers the risk of lossing clothing.

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Hunter_Dune t1_j9zdz8n wrote

You might not want to do this.

I forced myself, for a very long time, to almost never show a hint of negative emotion on my face due to the bias of those around me. Now, years later, I have a (wonderful) SO and a fantastic group of people around me who sometimes wonder why I'm so stoic to the point of almost being robotic. I'm not having to unlearn being so boxed up, and show those who love me what I'm feeling on my face.

Having emotions is not a bad thing.

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keepthetips t1_j9zdx3j wrote

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Loplo_Fox t1_j9zdee6 wrote

What runs out first? Underwear? Buy more. Or hand wash it. Shirts? Buy more. Have 2 weeks worth of everything.

Also wash and fold service is awesome if you can afford it. I was using it in NYC for about 50 cents a pound I think. We could do two huge bags for about 40 bucks if I remember correctly.

Or buy a washer/dryer combo. They make them that will wash and dry in one machine that was drain the water out of a normal drain so no need to exhaust. Not sure if that is preventing you from having one or space but could solve the problem. These things can take a long time to wash and dry (4+ hours) because I think it has to condense the steam back to water and drain it out.

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