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Physical-Ad9606 t1_j9yd17t wrote

Whenever I order a cheap item on Amazon that was imported from China I always receive a follow up letter in the mail from the seller offering a Amazon Gift Card in return for a 5-star review. So whenever you see a Chinese item at Amazon with 70% or more 5-star reviews, suspect that this is what is happening. 5-stars (on Amazon) doesn't mean all the time that the object is outstanding. I use to report this to Amazon but they don't really care to hear it and will do nothing about it. But here a way around that. So okay, write that 5-star review. Show these scammers the review online and receive your gift card. Apply the card to your account immediately then delete the review. And return the item! Boom! Money refunded + $25!

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fifthgenerationfool t1_j9yc0n1 wrote

I understand how you feel. Practice allowing yourself to get angry and stick up for yourself. I used to end up crying when I had to stick up for myself because I was so bad at confrontation. After years of practicing it’s gotten better.

A handy trick for not crying is deep breathing. When you feel yourself starting to cry, start a deep breathing technique.

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AJ3TurtleSquad t1_j9yacjv wrote

My initial thoughts/self talk are always negative. It takes a lot of practice to ignore those thoughts but it is crucial for our happiness to try and turn them into positive thoughts.

Your brain is a muscle and right now it's impusles are to be negative. So it will take time to rebuild that muscle to think positively. You are retraining yourself. It takes time and a lot of effort, but you can do it.

Keep working on yourself every day. You are worth it. The results are worth it. You got this!

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anally_ExpressUrself t1_j9y9zwd wrote

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