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keepthetips t1_j9k0lgv wrote

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werbit t1_j9jvd3x wrote

Just remember the grass is always greener where you water it man. I royally screwed up in college, thinking everyone was supposed to follow their dream path and I didn’t have one. Switched majors 3 times thinking it would click and I would be passionate about one of them. Wasted all that time and money just to drop out.

Took me 5 more years to figure out that for some people it’s just easier to be pessimistic about their current path and no job is always enjoyable. I’m content where I am now in accounting but because of my indecision I am way behind where I should be had I taken advantage of my privileges when I was younger.

Find the aspects of the job you enjoy and focus on those, good work ethic habits will get you through the rest. Make sure to look at the past and how far you’ve come as well.

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apsidalsauce t1_j9jus66 wrote

I think this whole thread is full of people proving how stupid you are, multiple times, on a daily basis.

You’d probably know that if you’d just squeeze some blood into your fat head.

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Don't rush and quite your job. At the moment you have knowledge of two fields of both you seem to have somewhat of a passion. Think of what you want and if you can combine the knowledge of both. Gain some experience with the software used and the iner workings, especially if there are problems with it. In the mean time look at functions where you can combine knowledge of both fields, if possible in your company. That way you could grow to a more IT function while still maintaining your job. If you manage to learn and show the insides of your software you will be knowing insides as the goto person which could help your transition to another function.

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Odd-Independent6177 t1_j9jlykp wrote

On a practical career note, if this is a very big company like you say, internal transfers will be a possibility. Do your current job well, keep an eye on what they look for in tech support roles within the company.

On more of an LPT note, having solved the problem of getting a job, you are now faced with all of the other aspects of adulting that you were postponing. These can be legitimately stressful, even scary. Maybe talk to a counselor to help you get your bearings in your relationship with your girlfriend and with your parents. Not that I think you sound mentally ill, but some counselors also have expertise in normal but major life changes. It’s like a very professional life coach. Avoid those life coaches that are basically just fronts for pyramid schemes, though.

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condor1985 t1_j9jde6o wrote

Gotta have goals beyond attaining your dream job. Happiness is a journey, not a place.

Humans are basically never happy in the long run unless they're in pursuit of something. Achieving the thing where you thought "once I have this, I'm set" often leads to a massive letdown because you've got nothing left to search for.

I'd say it's the same for hitting a savings milestone, buying a house, getting married, etc. Once those are done you're like "so... what now"

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Adonis0 t1_j9j8ojp wrote

I found cutting out carbs for a bit solved this for me.

Your body has the ability to produce its own sugar from protein to stabilise your blood sugar levels. If you feed it a tonne of carbs it gets lazy, but then you have wonky blood sugar levels when you sleep and in the morning. Your energy also only lasts a short time around meals.

So cutting out carbs completely for a bit, at least for breakfast, helped me to stabilise my blood sugar levels because my body began to make its own again

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kenikickit t1_j9j4v5x wrote

that’s rough, friend. sometimes, the idea of something can get so big that once you get to it, you feel let down. but that feeling might fade as your expectations come back down to earth.

i’d honestly say, try and stick with it at least until you see the culmination of your work so far. hopefully that means seeing it in a finished project that people can play. if the work itself isn’t proving to be satisfying to you, maybe the end result can be motivation - working on it is the hard part, but knowing what it’ll feel like to see something YOU made in a game might make the difference.

if that doesn’t work, don’t guilt yourself. shift focus and find a career that’ll give you satisfaction. you shot for your goals, and that’s admirable. sometimes what we think we want isn’t what it seems. but you only get one life and you deserve to feel fulfilled in what you do with it.

plus, you’ll always have the credentials that got you this job, which hopefully means they can get you another if you change your mind again, assuming you leave this job amicably.

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ThePowerOf42 t1_j9j4poc wrote

Tbh, i'd stay, least for a few years The exhauation you feel is properly from all the previous rejections (as you said, you landed your current job as the litteraly last resumé you sent) So to build up that Joy you had when it was your dream, takes time to rekindle Give it time and try to focus on the (many) good things you have.. colleagues et all After a few years you can always reconsider

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