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Claudia-Delgado-LCSW OP t1_izewrra wrote
Reply to comment by Other_Exercise in I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
Thank you for your question.
- Grief and Loss is a big part of the work I do.
- Although I never encourage cheating as a solution to a problem, in abusive situations, the affair relationship can be healthier.
spannerhorse t1_izewihu wrote
Reply to We’re Sadeka Nujhat, Hannah Leese and Sandhya Moise from the Department of Chemical Engineering at the University of Bath in the United Kingdom. We research ways to detect cancer as early as possible to help save lives. by UniversityofBath
Are conspiracy theories about cancer research have any ounce of truth? Like, are pharmaceutical companies trying to suppress new breakthroughs when they themselves are most likely bankrolling you?
Joshy3367 t1_izewi1t wrote
Reply to comment by shrimptooth in I'm Jordan VanDina and I wrote and directed the Hulu movie "It's a Wonderful Binge" that premieres tomorrow. But I got my start on Reddit with my fake script "Fast Nein: The Fast & The Fuhrer." AMA! by [deleted]
I am sure it would be an unimaginable experience. The reward of all the hard work coming together. Thanks for the response.
Claudia-Delgado-LCSW OP t1_izevxxw wrote
Reply to comment by redditor1101 in I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
Hi Redditor1101. In my experience, it is about half of the time that women leave the relationship. This is because, often times, by the time the affair takes place, the relationship was already over for them. This is more common with emotional affairs that turn into physical ones. Again though, the other half do want to work to try to save the relationship.
There are women that do continue to cheat even while staying in relationship. Many times partner is aware and holding hope that woman will change.
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Reply to comment by alchemist_lemi in I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
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HHS2019 t1_izev9dx wrote
Reply to I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
How often when innocent flirting starts does your client know that it will proceed to an affair? Are any just friends with someone and something develops or changes or did both parties start off knowing what they wanted?
HHS2019 t1_izev632 wrote
Reply to I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
Would you say that most affairs start through an emotional connection or a physical, sexual attraction?
HHS2019 t1_izev4jc wrote
Reply to I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
Do you believe that humans *should* be monogamous or that simply not in our DNA?
Claudia-Delgado-LCSW OP t1_izetywo wrote
Reply to comment by alchemist_lemi in I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
Hi Alchemist_lemi. Thank you for your question.
First meeting with me is free. This allows client and myself to see if we have a good connection in which client feels comfortable with my approach. It is very important for client to feel like they connect with me and feel comfortable ♥️. I lead first session, discuss my approach and client tells me some of reason they are seeking services. I then briefly discuss how I can help and then set up a second 10 minute follow up to see if client wants to schedule an appointment.
Sessions can be a one time session, as needed, weekly, every other week or monthly. Sessions cost $250 for 45-50 minutes after first free one.
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Deanosaur21 t1_izetatl wrote
Reply to We’re Sadeka Nujhat, Hannah Leese and Sandhya Moise from the Department of Chemical Engineering at the University of Bath in the United Kingdom. We research ways to detect cancer as early as possible to help save lives. by UniversityofBath
Hi! Could this type of screening be adapted to detect other types of cancers aswell?
redditor1101 t1_izet308 wrote
Reply to I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
How often do they end up leaving?
Also how many just keep doing it again and again despite seeking your help?
IAmAModBot t1_izesul5 wrote
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Other_Exercise t1_izestek wrote
Reply to I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
Thanks for this.
- What's something surprising about your role that most people probably wouldn't think of?
- At times, do you think the affair relationship the woman is having is healthier than their 'legit' one?
Claudia-Delgado-LCSW OP t1_izesmnb wrote
Reply to comment by stereoroid in I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
Hi Stereoroid. What is heard more often from women that cheat because of either lack of attention, affection or connection is that they have expressed needs to partner and they have felt brushed off, usually over a few years time. Most have asked for couples counseling multiple times and the other partner has not agreed.
I will add that many women do not blame the man or partner and there are many different reasons why infidelity can take place.
In my experience, rarely is cheating connected to money or status.
alchemist_lemi t1_izerzf6 wrote
Reply to I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
how much do you charge per metting?
stereoroid t1_izerd89 wrote
Reply to I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
How much "blame the man" do you hear from your patients? The man should be doing more, doesn't excite her any more, and so on? I also wonder how much money comes in to it - whether affairs are linked to hypergamy etc.
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Isquion t1_izeq98g wrote
Reply to We’re Sadeka Nujhat, Hannah Leese and Sandhya Moise from the Department of Chemical Engineering at the University of Bath in the United Kingdom. We research ways to detect cancer as early as possible to help save lives. by UniversityofBath
Hello there!
Which markers are you using in this early detection?
shrimptooth t1_izeq6xi wrote
Reply to comment by Joshy3367 in I'm Jordan VanDina and I wrote and directed the Hulu movie "It's a Wonderful Binge" that premieres tomorrow. But I got my start on Reddit with my fake script "Fast Nein: The Fast & The Fuhrer." AMA! by [deleted]
Aside from getting to see something I wrote actually get made which was incredible. I would say the best part was working with so many hilarious people and just watching them riff and improv. Getting to be around the funniest people in the world for 3 months is an unforgettable experience.
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merryman1 t1_izeprdr wrote
Reply to We’re Sadeka Nujhat, Hannah Leese and Sandhya Moise from the Department of Chemical Engineering at the University of Bath in the United Kingdom. We research ways to detect cancer as early as possible to help save lives. by UniversityofBath
Where do you see your work in the pipeline from lab to clinic, will this kind of technology be diagnosing patients in the immediate future or will this be a longer term ambition?
Claudia-Delgado-LCSW OP t1_izex5bh wrote
Reply to comment by HHS2019 in I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
Hi HHS2019. I have worked with people in which monogamy would not be something that would satisfy them long-term. On the same hand, I have worked with people that could not live outside of a monogamous situation.