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in_a_cage_brb t1_iu4ei2v wrote

I'm generally optimistic about most things, but I become pessimistic when it comes to my health. Well--more than that, really. I'm quite paranoid about it. How would that work then?

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bigfatmatt01 t1_iu4csag wrote

I didn't, it was suggested to me by reddit. I understand why it's done in feminist terms, It just bothers me as someone who believes that the written should emulate the sounds of spoken language. Womxn is unpronounceable.

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shinobiXz t1_iu4c5cq wrote

Not how it works in my experience.

I'm bipolar and while I will need to take medication, I'm getting the most benefit right now with DBT a form of CBT. I know regular CBT didn't help me much but that's not too say it ain't help others, and other firms of CBT can help you too.

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LCSW-Therapy445 t1_iu4akev wrote

LOL! I'm so loving your description of yourself, your lifestyle choices and much energy you clearly have! I'm curious how you go about finding like-minded peers who share your enthusiasm of living a life that is childfree; can you say more about how one goes about that? Thanks!

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juandelpueblo939 t1_iu4453d wrote

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gabirdy t1_iu41gdo wrote

Hi Dr. Lee! I'm a teenager and unsurprisingly, my friends and I carry a fair amount a stress, especially as we're applying to college. Sometimes I feel numb or avoidant towards stress while other times I consciously experience it. Could this contribute to irregular menstrual cycles? I know people who get gray hairs and we really just don't get enough sleep. Thanks in advance!!

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klocki12 t1_iu3zmys wrote

For chronic numbness (15 years now) what would thrrapies would recommend except SE , emdr, trauma sensitive yoga, TRE, myo fascial massage , psychadelic therapy, ?

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my_cement_butthead t1_iu3x0wa wrote

Hi, I’m late to the party so u might not get to me, but thank you for this!

My kids were molested and raped by their father/my ex husband when they were aged 0?-10. (They are safe, doing pretty well, don’t see him, regular counselling, and police involved).

My question is, I often am fearful that this will ‘ruin’ their lives forever. While they are doing ok, it’s all relative of course. Is there an age where things will be easier for them due to their brain/mind finishing to grow? They are currently 19, 18, & 16.

We are not going hurt about any of their past despite being told by many authorities that we shouldn’t talk about it. Proud isn’t the right word but we have worked hard to be not ashamed and the way we did that was to not hide it from ourselves or anyone else. So far so good but better would be amazing.

Any advice you can give us appreciated.

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