So what's the right feeling to chase? Someone who makes you feel warm and safe or someone who blows your mind and sets fire to your loins?

Wishing you a feline in the near future!

Similar situation here... We are hoping to get a dog though not the same

He got bi-weekly shots for a couple of years, which helped a bit. But he also said that we wouldn't get any more cats after that. She died 1.5 years ago and we've been catless since. Which sucks, but I can't insist if he suffers that much discomfort. Hoping he changes his mind!

He got bi-weekly shots for about two years. Still was very allergic, and would say "this is the last cat you'll ever have." She died last year, and I'm hoping he'll decide to get another. But he always had some trouble breathing when she was around so I don't want to make that decision.

It's very hard not having a cat, though. I really miss it.

I’m not sure how to word this but how did you learn dating advice?

Do you make latte art or just dump the foamed milk into the coffee?

>Golgafrincham Ark Fleet Ship B

Look, I totally get your feeling and reference, that I'm a useless human in a useless job.

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But the assumption that everyone on the planet just......gets dating isn't rational.

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Years ago, I would only get late 40s men at the end of their rope, so to speak. Nowadays, I have lots of clients in their early 20s, just wanting to learn how to better themselves, which I think is awesome.

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After all, don't we all want and deserve love?

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“I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.”

I think there's definitely an aspect of that going on. Look, dating (like everything we do) is a complex mix of biology, psychology, sociology and anthropology. Evolutionary psychology is great for explaining or looking at a certain set of data. But that is just data. For instance, studies show, "we" like symmetrical faces more than asymmetrical, "we" like long silky hair, "we" like women with 7:10 hip to waist ratio. If you ONLY go with that data, it can be surmised that perhaps we are looking for the healthiest mate, perhaps of good breeding age. But that doesn't take into factor ALL the other shit and baggage that make us human.

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For instance, women may biologically be attracted to men with more testosterone (hairier, bigger, wilder), but psychologically unattracted to them because they see them as "dumb jocks." (I am over generalizing and over simplifying things, but you get the idea.)

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So the idea of only one set of data driving our dating and mating drives is a little too simplistic. It's an AMAZING area of research that I love and devour, but it's just a part of a larger whole.

You would think that after a day of worship, people would be happier and more patient. 乁⁠[⁠ ⁠◕⁠ ⁠ᴥ⁠ ⁠◕⁠ ⁠]⁠ㄏ

Yes it was busy, but the attitude of people at that time was horrid.

Ok whatever. Is my coffee ready yet?

Were you assigned Golgafrincham Ark Fleet Ship B?

No kidding. Just stupid busy after 10am?

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Every Sunday after church

When making an americano, what goes in the cup first, the shots or the water?

Who is your favorite Pokemon and have you unionized yet?

Do you work in a Union shop?

What’s the craziest order you have received?

Least favorite time of year in regards to the customer base?

Haha I can see that. I hope you at least found a couple dishes and cultural things to like

What are your views on evolutionary psychology in the context of human mating? Do you largely agree or disagree with Dr. David buss?

Do you think a relationship between a minor and an adult is ever a good idea? Let's say their ages are 16 and 20, even though they are both above the age of consent in their country and have set boundaries regarding sexual interactions, aren't there still moral repercussions?

Disclaimer: I am not personally in this relationship, but I know a couple in this scenario and I can't help but feel worried.

Obviously I could speak an hour on each of those questions, but that's the marrow and gist of them!