But i do think i am funny

Sometimes I tell myself "well shit, it ain't gonna be the world and yourself against yourself," but then I remember my dire situation living in this country and how so far out of reach everything looks like and it's time to beat a dead horse again, unfortunately.

I agree! And so do I!

Go for it! You're right it's never too late...🤗 good luck! 🍀

Yup your are right ✅️

My grandmother and Dolores ate kind of the same person when I was growing up as a kid.

Nate the Great needed that advice

This is probably it. Motivating yourself by being hard on yourself sucks, but it works.

I'm sorry to hear this. We have ALL been there, trust me. Sometimes the only thing you can do is duck and cover.

You're stronger than you realize.

No I don't, I am pretty mild to myself

I don't know.. just stating fact to myself when I call myself a loser

I love this.

Yeah, fuck that guy.

Good luck!! Totally feel you on this one!

In my 40s and have started paying attention to the concept of self love. Its not for everyone especially us men, but it has given me more patience with myself.

> I’m doing now to change it …

These are your words. Make it your mantra and it will be enough.

It can be a common factor that leads to depression. But it's such a normal feeling! I feel like that constantly at 32. I think part of that feeling stems from low self-esteem, and i've found that focusing on what i am good at, or what i can do to improve helps alleviate some of that feeling. Like, what are your strengths? What are the things you think you could do to improve what you feel stupid at?

There's always gonna be someone smarter than you, but maybe it's a good thing to be surrounded by people you can learn things from, and some people you can teach. That way you kind of balance out feeling stupid and feeling like you can really help someone else.

Hope that helps, just some things i've found useful

Sometimes people will say things like, well there I go again being, insert.....whatever personal insult. I will respond, don't talk to my friend like that.
It takes them a second. When my self talk is headed that way, I tell myself the same. It helps me shift my intentions.

Man fuck that guy

I'm making this my phone background

People will say awful ugly hateful things to themselves that they would never tolerate another person saying to them

Rough seas have killed many skilled sailors.

Nice.

It's not dumb. I literally never think I do.

Jeez, even my self-talk is terrible!☹️