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klatleen t1_jblun2d wrote
I have a two parter that was a miracle for me. I smoked for 35 years 2 packs a day. I got on a very low dose of Wellbutrin and did something called “auricular therapy”. It’s been almost 2 and a half months and I’m doing ok.
JollySky314 t1_jblumau wrote
Reply to Hidden Gem [image] by ChefGirlRD1738
I noticed some of those people who don’t admit their faults were always scared of many things. If they are wrong, their world is destroyed. So, admitting their fault is a matter of life or death for them. But as this author said, we don’t need to bother them. When I wanted to take revenge on someone, I just progressed and became happy by thanking the person for giving me a chance to learn about humanity because I knew that my happiness is the last thing they wanted to see.
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dariasniece t1_jblu3nu wrote
Reply to comment by SovFist in [image] just hold on a little longer by kennystillalive
Yeah, this one overlooks the importance of making active changes in your life. Circumstances will change but the odds against them randomly working in your favor are pretty small. You gotta make those kind of changes yourself
galactictock t1_jblt68t wrote
Reply to comment by eetuu in [Image] This photo has helped me greatly with my low self esteem and social anxiety by meteoricBolbitis
I don’t think the author is saying it’s either, just that the illusion is there. To the lone outsider, institutions seem indomitable but to the institution, an individual outsider could pose a significant threat. Institutions can be helpful or harmful, but either way we should bear in mind they are not invulnerable
chevymonza t1_jblssc5 wrote
Reply to comment by AmargithHuld in Hidden Gem [image] by ChefGirlRD1738
That sounds wonderful!! I tried to move to Europe after my first visit in my early twenties. Didn't work out, but I've been telling my husband that if his company ever has jobs over yonder, that he needs to consider it!
polp54 OP t1_jblqjpx wrote
Reply to comment by LightningSpearwoman in [image] I have this on a poster next to my bed and really helps me get through tough days by polp54
Here’s a link to the original
SilentlyInPain t1_jblqgfw wrote
Reply to [Image] This photo has helped me greatly with my low self esteem and social anxiety by meteoricBolbitis
This is actually really neat
LightningSpearwoman t1_jblqb3q wrote
Reply to [image] I have this on a poster next to my bed and really helps me get through tough days by polp54
it is quite hard to read!
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but it looks beautiful, thanks for sharing this
slutdragon32 t1_jblo2xu wrote
Mine is Slick, and he is an asshole! A convincing one, but an asshole none the less.
carmium t1_jblnpoq wrote
Reply to comment by Fearless-Lion9703 in [image] just hold on a little longer by kennystillalive
Same. I guess....
ZenMonkey21 t1_jblms8w wrote
Sometimes I go about in pity for myself, and all the while a great wind carries me across the sky
aepr88 t1_jbljwus wrote
Reply to [TEXT] I feel stupid constantly by [deleted]
It's good that you feel stupid. That means you realize that there's room for you to improve and that you are surrounded by people who are smarter than you.
That's much better situation than if you feel smarter than everyone around you. There's a famous saying, "If you are smarter than everyone in the room, you are probably in the wrong room."
It's totally normal to feel like that as you enter the real world.
For me, I kicked everyone ass in High School. Got humbled the first semester in college. Got humbled further in grad school. And when I entered the workforce, I felt that everyone was so amazingly good and technically stronger than me. I realize this is a good thing and that I need to keep improving.
Keep grinding!
ABinturong t1_jbljai8 wrote
Reply to [Image] This photo has helped me greatly with my low self esteem and social anxiety by meteoricBolbitis
This is very good, well done!
HerbeesHolistics t1_jblikt7 wrote
Reply to [TEXT] I feel stupid constantly by [deleted]
Have you ever been assessed for ADHD? There's tons of stuff that doesn't have anything to do with attention that happens as a result. Depression and anxiety is right at the top for me. It looks different in adulthood
anaccountofrain t1_jblgv9l wrote
“Silenzio Bruno!”
Diskobulus t1_jblgtnr wrote
Reply to [image] just hold on a little longer by kennystillalive
Needed to hear this 🙏 it's tempting to give up on yourself but I won't
spartanb301 t1_jblgdzj wrote
Reply to [TEXT] I feel stupid constantly by [deleted]
32, pretty much the most stupid person on the planet.
LeagueComfortable427 t1_jblg0wd wrote
I spent so much of my youth and early adult life studying and training for my career I feel like I missed out on all the fun experiences and adventures that “normal” people have. I’m so desensitized to living alone and entertaining myself. This contributed to my divorce.
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I fortunately have a great career and plenty of money and great friends and family but I frequently feel very lonely and feel that I have a different set of problems than the average person.
HelpingMeet t1_jblfpv3 wrote
Reply to [TEXT] I feel stupid constantly by [deleted]
You just need to realize everyone else around you is faking it too. We all are insecure. We all are just doing our best every day. It’s an awareness that you’ll never know it all like you thought you would.
You are not a failure, you are learning, and so long as you are learning you can avoid becoming a puddle of nothing, and so long as you admit you still need to learn you can avoid becoming a Karen. Just try to enjoy the process of becoming who you want to be
G00DDRAWER t1_jblezz7 wrote
Reply to [TEXT] I feel stupid constantly by [deleted]
I'm 53, and despite graduating with honors, finding a loving life partner, a long-lasting job, and plenty of friends, I still feel like an idiotic failure most of the time. I don't understand it either.
iamCaptainDeadpool t1_jblexfw wrote
Reply to [image] just hold on a little longer by kennystillalive
Nothing good ever happens. You just have to make do.
beanathin t1_jbldi6m wrote
Reply to [image] just hold on a little longer by kennystillalive
It's just hard when I feel like this every other day
Chris_the_Otter t1_jblut55 wrote
Reply to [Discussion] Give Suggestions to Quit Smoking. by worldofjaved
I chewed the gum. I chewed that shit like a cow, all day, going through multiple pieces a day and I got hooked on the knot in the throat sensation from the nicotine. I chewed it for 3 years, gradually switching to the lower dosage and eventually switching it out for regular gum.
Started smoking when I was nine, smoked for roughly a cumulative 25 years, quit for good in 2013