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Chris_the_Otter t1_jblut55 wrote

I chewed the gum. I chewed that shit like a cow, all day, going through multiple pieces a day and I got hooked on the knot in the throat sensation from the nicotine. I chewed it for 3 years, gradually switching to the lower dosage and eventually switching it out for regular gum.

Started smoking when I was nine, smoked for roughly a cumulative 25 years, quit for good in 2013

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JollySky314 t1_jblumau wrote

I noticed some of those people who don’t admit their faults were always scared of many things. If they are wrong, their world is destroyed. So, admitting their fault is a matter of life or death for them. But as this author said, we don’t need to bother them. When I wanted to take revenge on someone, I just progressed and became happy by thanking the person for giving me a chance to learn about humanity because I knew that my happiness is the last thing they wanted to see.   

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galactictock t1_jblt68t wrote

I don’t think the author is saying it’s either, just that the illusion is there. To the lone outsider, institutions seem indomitable but to the institution, an individual outsider could pose a significant threat. Institutions can be helpful or harmful, but either way we should bear in mind they are not invulnerable

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chevymonza t1_jblssc5 wrote

Reply to comment by AmargithHuld in Hidden Gem [image] by ChefGirlRD1738

That sounds wonderful!! I tried to move to Europe after my first visit in my early twenties. Didn't work out, but I've been telling my husband that if his company ever has jobs over yonder, that he needs to consider it!

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aepr88 t1_jbljwus wrote

It's good that you feel stupid. That means you realize that there's room for you to improve and that you are surrounded by people who are smarter than you.

That's much better situation than if you feel smarter than everyone around you. There's a famous saying, "If you are smarter than everyone in the room, you are probably in the wrong room."

It's totally normal to feel like that as you enter the real world.

For me, I kicked everyone ass in High School. Got humbled the first semester in college. Got humbled further in grad school. And when I entered the workforce, I felt that everyone was so amazingly good and technically stronger than me. I realize this is a good thing and that I need to keep improving.

Keep grinding!

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HerbeesHolistics t1_jblikt7 wrote

Have you ever been assessed for ADHD? There's tons of stuff that doesn't have anything to do with attention that happens as a result. Depression and anxiety is right at the top for me. It looks different in adulthood

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LeagueComfortable427 t1_jblg0wd wrote

I spent so much of my youth and early adult life studying and training for my career I feel like I missed out on all the fun experiences and adventures that “normal” people have. I’m so desensitized to living alone and entertaining myself. This contributed to my divorce.

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I fortunately have a great career and plenty of money and great friends and family but I frequently feel very lonely and feel that I have a different set of problems than the average person.

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HelpingMeet t1_jblfpv3 wrote

You just need to realize everyone else around you is faking it too. We all are insecure. We all are just doing our best every day. It’s an awareness that you’ll never know it all like you thought you would.

You are not a failure, you are learning, and so long as you are learning you can avoid becoming a puddle of nothing, and so long as you admit you still need to learn you can avoid becoming a Karen. Just try to enjoy the process of becoming who you want to be

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G00DDRAWER t1_jblezz7 wrote

I'm 53, and despite graduating with honors, finding a loving life partner, a long-lasting job, and plenty of friends, I still feel like an idiotic failure most of the time. I don't understand it either.

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