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iZenun t1_jbi6fvu wrote

Untrue, I will never heal from the pain. I know this because I've carried it for years and years, and it's still the same as from the first.

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sbfx t1_jbi1g8w wrote

You’re not behind as you think. You have a great career, friends and family. Some people have none of those. Quit fixating on other people, lose the mentality of should have done this, should have done that. That time is already gone, it doesn’t make sense to dwell on it when you still have a ton of life to live.

Your ego is the one concerned about the past and the future. Ego dissolves in the present.

Get serious about dating. Get fucking angry that you allowed yourself to be lonely, use it as fuel to pursue a serious relationship. Get back in the game. Study the hell out of online dating. Spend 20 hours making a decent dating profile, not some nonchalant bullshit all over the apps these days. Get serious about it and maximize your chances of attracting the right person.

Good luck out there, I believe in you.

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