This is where comparing oneself to others actually makes sense, within reason. I agree it’s a mistake to judge your life based on milestones or achievements made by friends and family because we all have different goals and definitions of happiness.

However, in business or athletics or anything else where competition is a key component, we really need to know how we’re doing. With nothing/no one to compare ourselves to, its impossible to know whether we’re crushing it or about to be replaced.

I encounter a LOT of people who are afraid to ask for a raise when they need it, afraid to go home at the end of the day, afraid to take a full lunch break…all because they’re racing this invisible ghost and they don’t even know whether they’re winning or getting lapped.

Know where you stand. If you don’t know, ask.

NEEDED. THIS.

Thank you for sharing.

Al pastor!

Thats like a dream within a dream stuff. Now you've given me a whole new platform to pull myself apart...

Or worse, the person who is causing the harm comes at this from the perspective of the ‘hidden gem’. I.e they are abusive but it’s ok because their feelings are valid, etc. I firmly believe that messages like this text enable toxic behaviour.

Fuck. This hits home.

Por que no Los tres?

Im gonna learn how to write with my left hand

wait, so this one is about the words? I just tried doing the “magic eye” thing, looking at this image on my phone, and I saw a hand flipping the bird emerging from the text on this page.

Going to plan on taking a nap today just in case. 😬

Was in there and checked but couldn’t see what book exactly is this from ?

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Income vs inflation and rising housing prices.

Consistently moving is only enough so long as you're still outrunning the bear.

This is exactly what I need right now

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Damn, that's me.

I'm honestly the best person I know. In a lot of areas. And I'm extremely hard on myself. Figures.

Why all big companies are in USA not Rwanda?

I needed this 👌🏾

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which should i choose hmmmmmmmmmmm maybe maybe maybe none :D

Kind of a long winded way of saying "Quit being a little punk, and get over it."

If you're not in a DBT program you should try it. It's different than usual CBT talk therapy

Could mean several different things, however in my case, it means someone I made YouTube sketches with. I was (or perhaps still am) an actor with an eye for cinematic quality and he’s a comedian. His toxicity made for great and highly viewed videos, but when he brought that into real life, it was way too much to deal with.