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wasabi2knz t1_jbcy3fe wrote

Reply to comment by ACatInACloak in [Image] Either Way by strippy

It’s ok - it eventually gets better - unless I am just failing massively and no one is telling me and I am doing a terrible job and oh god oh god.

22 years in tech, 7 in consulting……

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WhimsicalUnknown t1_jbcvq08 wrote

Thank you for sharing this quote and your personal struggles.

With new things, expect to start really rough. It’s normal. Expect to give bad results for a while. It’s normal. You may not see others going through it. That’s because people tend to share their successes more. Behind all success is a lot of struggling.

Failure, mistakes, struggles, ugliness are a part of learning. The more you mess up early on, the more you will learn. What’s a better time to do poorly than in the beginning? No other time! Make all the “bad” things. Keep them to look back and reflect on your progress.

You are trying new things. You are learning. You are growing. Isn’t that beautiful?

Think of how wildfires encourage healthier regrowth. So so beautiful.

Keep trying. You are amazing.

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abaram t1_jbcr7d4 wrote

So do I relax and try to give people around me a sense of stability and comfort? Or do I put in extra work to make sure that I create work for everyone?

Those actions have opposite vectors and if I do one thing when the other is needed, I’m gonna be burning some bridges.

Either way, work is miserable and I don’t like it

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