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i-will-eat-you t1_jb9pabf wrote

Reply to [Image] The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything. by sylsau

In interviews with North Korean defectors, I remember they claimed that people in South Korea tend to be more miserable despite the objectively better living conditions.

Yes the "money can't buy happiness" phrase is controversial, but it all depends on the context. You can be happy while in a bad situation and miserable in a good situation.

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an0mn0mn0m t1_jb9gn8b wrote

Reply to comment by pat_speed in [Image] The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything. by sylsau

Yes and no. Having more money doesn't automatically bring you happiness, it just averts the misery of poverty. So for me, it's about perspective. The joke about the investment banker and the fisherman came to my mind to illustrate this.

An American investment banker was at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large yellow fin tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them.

The Mexican replied, “only a little while. The American then asked why didn’t he stay out longer and catch more fish? The Mexican said he had enough to support his family’s immediate needs. The American then asked, “but what do you do with the rest of your time?”

The Mexican fisherman said, “I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take siestas with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine, and play guitar with my amigos. I have a full and busy life.” The American scoffed, “I am a Harvard MBA and could help you. You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds, buy a bigger boat. With the proceeds from the bigger boat, you could buy several boats, eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the processor, eventually opening your own cannery. You would control the product, processing, and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and eventually New York City, where you will run your expanding enterprise.”

The Mexican fisherman asked, “But, how long will this all take?”

To which the American replied, “15 – 20 years.”

“But what then?” Asked the Mexican.

The American laughed and said, “That’s the best part. When the time is right you would announce an IPO and sell your company stock to the public and become very rich, you would make millions!”

“Millions – then what?”

The American said, “Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take siestas with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your amigos.”

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