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Ryan-Updog t1_ja8jw8t wrote

Maybe it will help if you think of the benefits instead of the work. For instance, it helps me battle depression so, I love to work out because it keeps the dark clouds at bay.

If I’m not feeling the exercise part I can say to myself “I may not want to do this but I’ll feel so much better when I do.”

Also remember in this game progress is not fast. It takes time. That’s why you can be so proud of it. You can look at yourself and know you have what it takes to push yourself through something even if you don’t want to do it because in the end you know it’s the best thing for you.

Because of my mental health issues I feel like I have a sort of chest code because I look forward to exercising. I realize it’s not that way for everyone and I really hope this helps you!!

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Onewood t1_ja8go1v wrote

Two things that help me - tracking stats on my AppleWatch - been going steady for nearly a year now and love to dig into the stats and compare to last month, last quarter, last year.

The second is trying new things and gaining new skills, endurance, muscles etc. When I am into something new I am excited to go.

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WolfsQuill t1_ja8dvsl wrote

I do think I'd enjoy climbing. The issue is mostly monetary with that. I live in an area where all of that is behind a pay wall I can't afford. Beyond that, i have two friends. (I don't mean this in a bad way. I prefer a small social circle.) One of whom is- not really my place to say, but her priority is on things other than physical health. The other lives farther away and is more focused on his and his fiance's life (understandably).

Edit: I mean, at the end of the day, my "problem" is the same as many others'. It's not something I want to do, so I'm not inclined to find a reason or way to do it. I prefer reading, writing, and rpg games. Exercising annoys me because it cuts into my time to do those things.

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greatcuriouscat t1_ja8d16x wrote

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Thank you for the information, I appreciate it.

I chose the word empathy over sympathy because that's what happening to me. I know some relatives and so called friends that are struggling with depression/anxiety/burnout and though im experiencing the same i should know better to be kind and empathetic towards them but i dont feel anything like do i care? No. Should i ask them how r they doing? No. Do i feel sorry? No. Should i send encouraging messages? No. I see people die here and there on the news, do i feel sorry and care? Wish i could.

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doingthethings12 t1_ja8cafu wrote

I’ve been working out consistently for almost 2 years and wouldn’t say I “enjoy” it. As others said, make it a habit and set a reasonable expectation. I was pushing myself to go 5 days a week but once lowering that to 4 days a week it felt more manageable. My gym is class-based and having accountability from trainers and regulars has helped me significantly.

I’ve never been someone who says that the gym is like a version of therapy for me, reduces stress/anxiety, etc. However, feeling stronger has been a great feeling.

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RayPineocco t1_ja8bxia wrote

I love working out and sometimes it does feel like a chore. But if I force myself to do it, I never regret it afterwards and I'm always a little proud of myself for pushing past that barrier. It's never going to be easy ALL THE TIME. That's just wishful thinking.

Think about the long term. Think about the goals you set out to achieve when you started going. Keep your eye on the prize and you will have more of an incentive to push towards this "chore" feeling.

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