Recent comments in /f/GetMotivated
catbadass t1_ja6ojnq wrote
Reply to [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
You climb a mountain one step at a time
Reconned t1_ja6ocvf wrote
Reply to comment by truebynature in [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
Unrelated to the post, but I needed to hear this today. Thanks, man.
superjudgebunny t1_ja6ib7y wrote
Reply to comment by Alicia0510 in [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
Ahh 26 ya. I thought it was mandatory? Weird. I got screwed and it passed when I turned 27. Lol talk about bad timing.
Alicia0510 t1_ja6i6ic wrote
Reply to comment by superjudgebunny in [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
The law says your parents can keep you on until your 26. But the key word is can. Parents don’t have to have you on their insurance if they don’t want to.
DaveyCrickets t1_ja6hrtk wrote
Reply to [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
Yo if you really need the USPS will likely give you a job. Honest work and pay with its own health insurance plan through the union. Be a mail handler or clerk
2020willyb2020 t1_ja6g36w wrote
Reply to [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
Focus, effort and get it done- it may not be perfect but progress happens and you need to stand on your own
greatcuriouscat t1_ja6dv3h wrote
rhiannondreamz t1_ja6clem wrote
OldManPeaches t1_ja69x9h wrote
Reply to [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
No saaa
Novel-Bike-6317 t1_ja68m0q wrote
Reply to [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
Work in an exercise routine to keep your head (and body) in good shape
mazurzapt t1_ja67vw9 wrote
Reply to comment by itslexibicth in [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
They are worried because they know they are not going to be around forever. They want you to be ready. I’ve been there with family members and I know how long it takes for the brain to kick in. Try reading the Primal Teen.
ajsf87 t1_ja67gnt wrote
Reply to [discussion] How to dramatically improve your life, by thinking about someone other than you. by Disciplineking
I got so lost.
zuperfly t1_ja66qka wrote
Reply to [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
Cold shower
Eat
Get notebook, write everything down
Pause
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Respect yourself. Think logically, go outside.
You deserve to be here, you were created.
Since you are created, you can simply turn into essence. You are your whole being.
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Now transfer yourself through the aether, be magnetic to what life has to give.
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Become the space.
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If all this did not help, or you did not understand it. Try again.
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Now, if it still did not work; Become nothing. You have lost.
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Become the darkness and breathe into it, breathe it out.
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Go outside, this is your new place. Get used to it and trust the instincts of your body.
Be aware of the triggers, the warnings and the falling feeling you will experience.
Do not worry. You will not need anything to overcome this. As you were born for this.
Learn to trust the good. The heavenly. The bright. Some may call it sun, some may call it nature.
This is not something to be understood within the getmotivated atmosphere. As this is simply a place to " Get motivated ". In order to > Do < something.
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We do not do anything.
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Such_is_Mango t1_ja62twe wrote
Reply to comment by msltoe in [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
I can't upvote this enough! Got a brain infection 7 years ago and now half of my skull is 3D printed. I have some short term memory loss amongst other medical issues as a result. After recovering, I immediately started a journal to note everything each day, and it has changed my life.
joyfall t1_ja62jcp wrote
Reply to [discussion] How to dramatically improve your life, by thinking about someone other than you. by Disciplineking
I try to live by this principle. Doesn't always get easy, but future me is much happier when I pack a good lunch, work out, plan ahead, and set goals. I try to think of future me as a roommate that I share a home and body with. When I'm an asshole to that roommate, I really start to resent that roommate.
Lilimaej t1_ja61ami wrote
Reply to [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
You can do it ! Get your shit done! Good luck!! ❤️🙏
Lilimaej t1_ja617ze wrote
Reply to [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
Listen to your parents!! ♥️🙏
lawlifelgbt t1_ja5zm6f wrote
Reply to [Story] I have 48 days to fix my life by itslexibicth
Even if you have mental health challenges, you can do what you have to do. It is not impossible. Work and contributing to finances really helped me when I was in a bad spot!
I was at a point where I was doing an intensive outpatient program for mental health but I still HAD to work the rest of the week so that I would not be, you know, homeless.
But, I found that because I had to get up mornings to work, take care of my pets, and participate in a community group, doing one thing led to another thing. I mean, I am already up and dressed, why not run an errand? Why not do some enrichment with my cats? I literally could not afford to ruminate or go down thinking rabbit holes or sit around all day in my room. So I didn’t.
Yes, I could have used more rest and better care, but I found that I accomplished more each day/meeting, had more small wins, and felt a bit better about myself than the other clients in the program, who often had nothing else to do in their lives but work on their mental health.
It ended up I left the program because I got a job, which was actually better for that aspect of my health than the treatment. (I am neurodivergent and lack some social skills/tend to make faux pas, which forced me to hold myself back from expressing myself fully in groups and caused flak with the counselor who could not understand my challenges. While on the other hand, a schedule, routine, and working in my field was a huge mental health lift for me).
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CultOfScarrow t1_ja5wnai wrote
Reply to comment by Otherwise-Young627 in [Image]This is what keeps me going back to the gym by Closedbay
At least I'm not fatphobic
accountablestranger t1_ja6oq30 wrote
Reply to [discussion] How to dramatically improve your life, by thinking about someone other than you. by Disciplineking
This is great! Yeah I always tell my kids to think about the future you and ask how your decisions now will affect future you later. Love the way you put it.