Recent comments in /f/GetMotivated

xPlus2Minus1 t1_j9ysky4 wrote

Thank you, that's extremely mature of you to say, very very few people in this world have the emotional strength to acknowledge and accept that level of someone else's pain in the way that you just did. I truly appreciate it.

Please don't worry about me too much. If I don't find peace in life, know that I will find it in death, and to me in life, that is a relief. Just thinking about it lowers my blood pressure. I feel more calm just knowing there's a way out. If I first my eyes and picture it, it's the most genuine smile I can muster-- the sadness is thinking of those left behind. But at they've told me for so many years, I need to put myself first, and it seems like that will end up being what that means.

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clearvu1128 t1_j9yg6b9 wrote

I can really relate to this at the moment. Recently, someone lied to me about something that was important to me at the time, so I decided to stop talking to her. Since then, I've been focusing on school and my physical/mental health, and have been much happier since not interacting with her. But yesterday, I had the urge to message her (but didn't), and even had a dream where I confronted her about the situation. Just gotta keep staying focused, I guess.

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Lightningbreak35 t1_j9y7g79 wrote

That reminds me, in Oktober a friend asked me for help, and of cours, i tried to help, but becaus i was scared and didn't know how to help her(i knew her since august, so 2 months), i tried cheering her up with a comlpiment, sadly that backfired so hard, that she said she needed some distance. At the beginning of this year, she baisiclly tolled me she didn't want to have anything to do with me anymore.

So thats that.

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Quizar_Squirrel OP t1_j9y0qo9 wrote

This is something I need to hear every now and then. Wondering about the past and if I made the right choices. Always remember to keep pushing forward and this place is one of the few insanely positive subreddits that I'm grateful for.

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