The grass is always greener on the other side.

not losing hope is in itself motivating

What? 4 AM wasn't early enough for you?!?!

OP you're a beast. Keep it up.

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I fully appreciate this. Your right that either choice you make…you can’t help but wonder what the other path would have held.

I'm sorry, dude. Nothing's going to fix that one but time.

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I am so sorry.

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There are 2 versions of me.

1. I wake up and work out in the morning and feel great, have energy, and am happy

2. I decide to sleep in and hate myself

…and failed at all four. But still we carry on.

Been searching every day all my life.

Any suggestions of how you personally do this?

How old are you?

Need to look for a better perspective

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You are the only one who can change it

shit I needed this right now- today I signed my dad up for Hospice care and had to tell family and friends

I feel best when I finish the day by saying, "thank you, God, for today". It makes me think about what was good in that day. There is almost always something good, even if the day as a whole totally sucked. A pretty sunset, a patch of wildflowers you drove by, a mocking bird singing as you walked across the parking lot. Just try to find one little thing each day that you can be thankful for - I promise it will make you feel better.

What black screen white writing being proud of you didn’t fix your problems? Pull yourself up by the bloody bootstraps! /s

Umm that’s pretty broad generalizations of childfree people(we don’t all sit there with regret growing older ) . Having kids is not for everyone but I agree everyone who wants kids should definitely do it when they’re little younger .

Or, do it 10 years from now and rent out your basement to a young couple for free nanny work.

Keep running my person!

wait, youre saying that people have kids explicitly to prop up the economy?

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