An interesting anecdote my friend’s mom gave me one day decades ago while we were all hanging out at dinner. She is a doctor of eastern medicine as my friend and his family came over from China.

“ when you have a pail full of water and leave the pail to rest, what happens?” she asked.

“Gets all nasty with bugs and stuff starts growing in it .” I replied

“Well our body is almost 80 percent water, what do you think happens when you don’t move around that water enough?”

This piece of advice has stuck with me ever since!

what do u mean?

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Not really no... most jobs have repetition, this only applies to like life experiences and stuff

Ah the old saying something while saying nothing approach to bullshit.

I hope he never pays his student loans back

I hope you’re raising your kids with a better attitude than you have.

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Sounds like movement is healing. I need to do more moving.

I hope not. I have caught some sickness (probably covid) that gave me body aches, a constant headache, fucking constant fever and I am taking care of my 10 month old. Please never let me live through this again.

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My thoughts exactly, I'd have kids in an ideal world but not in this world

That sounds familiar to me. Running saved me too in a way. I felt free because of it for the first time.

I’ll be in good company! Thanks friend!

This is dumb theres plenty of times where I have dealt with the exact same issue multiple times days in a row or at random. Its called having a job. lol

> So everyone with kids is selfish? Doesn’t matter that those kids will literally run the economy and society and make sure the infrastructure is there to support you when you’re old?

The problem is that there are too many kids. Only some of them would be necessary.

How am I an incel, I'm just stating my experience and relaying what I've heard from just about every single man I've ever talked to regarding the subject. Dating gets easier once your more established as a man. Wealthier/ higher status men have an easier time dating, what is that now considered misogynistic these days?

However, tomorrow could be significantly worse.

I tried that with my prison roommate and he said it didn’t help

Debt generally dies with the debtor. So it's basically not a problem. Make the minimum payments for a few years, then just die.

Well, he won't need to worry about paying his student loans in a couple of years.

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Do it now, in five years, you’ll be five years older.

Trust me, you don’t want to be wrangling a toddler when you’re old—and you’ll never be younger than you are right now.

And at age 71 - sign maker!

Yeah they are, they’re fundamentally wrong ayoooo