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MinecraftVeteran001 t1_j9no63j wrote
Yeah never too late to pursue your dreams!
StateChemist t1_j9nl7l0 wrote
Reply to comment by Zippy926 in [Image] Mediocre will always be better that none. by Zippy926
Thanks
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Reply to [image] some of you are unaware… by verbselflove
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mrh4paws t1_j9njm4q wrote
Reply to [image] some of you are unaware… by verbselflove
I'm kind of a ballbuster but people laugh so thank you for this. I feel better.
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Reply to [image] some of you are unaware… by verbselflove
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303elliott t1_j9nj7gx wrote
Reply to comment by AcceptableAccount794 in [story] I (M28) started a job as a nighttime security officer in January 2022, changing my lifestyle which made me gain some weight. After trying my short-sleeved uniform from last spring, I’m only now realizing how bad it’s gotten, not able to button a single button. Need to start to reverse this. by MisterOwl_94
It's fake, from 2019. See my comment.
HomoVulgaris t1_j9niqsw wrote
Reply to [story] I (M28) started a job as a nighttime security officer in January 2022, changing my lifestyle which made me gain some weight. After trying my short-sleeved uniform from last spring, I’m only now realizing how bad it’s gotten, not able to button a single button. Need to start to reverse this. by MisterOwl_94
There's a lot of factors going on here, genetics, snacks etc... it's tough to just pick out one thing to change, and changing everything is just overwhelming, so the tendency is just to kinda forget about everything and perpetuate the cycle.
So I will tell you that sitting is the killer.
I used to work crappy retail jobs, with lots of snacks, terrible sleep, just an awful lifestyle. However, I was on my feet all 8 hours, so sometimes I even lost weight.
Now, when I have a decent office job, I have great sleep, I watch my diet, and I gain weight... just because I sit all day.
Invest in some really comfortable shoes, maybe with special gel or whatever, and try to do half your shift standing up. Then slowly move to doing your full shift standing up. It's not impossible. You're going to see results after two weeks, I promise.
SorakaWithAids t1_j9nimys wrote
Reply to [image] some of you are unaware… by verbselflove
I don't know anyone so none of those things apply tro me LoL
AcceptableAccount794 t1_j9ni0je wrote
Reply to [story] I (M28) started a job as a nighttime security officer in January 2022, changing my lifestyle which made me gain some weight. After trying my short-sleeved uniform from last spring, I’m only now realizing how bad it’s gotten, not able to button a single button. Need to start to reverse this. by MisterOwl_94
Adding a second comment, since looked at the link you provided -- that last photo of the difference in just two years really raises a concern from my perspective.
I would recommend going to a doctor as soon as possible, and ask about liver testing especially, but also blood tests to show blood sugar levels and triglycerides. Ascites can be a sign of liver disease, and if the gain has been very quick, they recommend procedures to at least initially drain some of that fluid.
Here is a link about non-alcoholic fatty liver disease, with a list of possible symptoms or other co siderations.
The good side is that the liver has regenerative qualities and can bounce back from stress/strain/scarring, but you gotta work with a doctor to see if this is wah it is and if so, try and find out what is causing it.
Edit: saw the last photo too -- the symptoms looks like liver failure to me, I'm sorry to say. Definitely go to a doctor that is well versed in liver health.
JaySocials671 t1_j9nhr8o wrote
Reply to [image] some of you are unaware… by verbselflove
True
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Reply to [story] I (M28) started a job as a nighttime security officer in January 2022, changing my lifestyle which made me gain some weight. After trying my short-sleeved uniform from last spring, I’m only now realizing how bad it’s gotten, not able to button a single button. Need to start to reverse this. by MisterOwl_94
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CerealKiller3030 t1_j9nh1w8 wrote
Reply to comment by that-jackdaw in I tend to doodle as I journal, and this helped me. [Image] by that-jackdaw
Lol it's all good. Just found it funny this morning for some reason
AcceptableAccount794 t1_j9ngzci wrote
Reply to [story] I (M28) started a job as a nighttime security officer in January 2022, changing my lifestyle which made me gain some weight. After trying my short-sleeved uniform from last spring, I’m only now realizing how bad it’s gotten, not able to button a single button. Need to start to reverse this. by MisterOwl_94
Although I am not a doctor, this looks a lot like ascites, which is fluid retention within the abdomen. It's commonly caused by excessive drinking of alcohol over many years and can show up quickly once the body's lost a lot of its ability to filter fluids (I don't know the technical terms around that-- but mine developed over maybe 2 years after 10 years of heavy drinking). It can also be cause by other things like congestive heart failure or clogging of vein within the liver.
As I mentioned, I had drank heavily for years (2-3 20oz sugary colas in the afternoons and alcohol in the evening) and was developing a similar condition. I quit alcohol and sugary beverages entirely and dropped about 45 pounds with no other interventions (essentially, I lost all the weight in my midsection) over the course of maybe a year and a half. So the weight loss was slow but steady.
Your case definitely looks like fluid retention to me, but since I don't know you, I am not sure if that ends up being true and if so what factors are contributing towards it. Diets heavy in salt can cause fluid retention too. So if you're eating frozen microwavable meals, many types of fast foods, or cans of soups (or really any meal that has high sodium), that can be something you target to eliminate from your diet.
I'd recommend getting a second opinion from a doctor that looks into liver functioning and heart functioning, but specifically mentioning exploring whether ascites might be a possible diagnosis. There may be some underlying condition that's causing the fluid retention that hasn't been identified yet. Best of luck! ✌
TechIsATool t1_j9ngub5 wrote
Reply to [image] some of you are unaware… by verbselflove
It makes me a fucking joker .
bootywerewolf t1_j9ng83b wrote
Reply to [story] I (M28) started a job as a nighttime security officer in January 2022, changing my lifestyle which made me gain some weight. After trying my short-sleeved uniform from last spring, I’m only now realizing how bad it’s gotten, not able to button a single button. Need to start to reverse this. by MisterOwl_94
I work overnight but my job is super physical and I have chronic stomach issues so I keep losing without trying (which is also becoming problematic).
Have a big meal before work and try to eat lightly throughout the night. Then, have a small meal or a few snacks when you get home to satiate you before bed. I've read that eating a lot during night shifts can mess with your blood sugar and stuff. High protein foods will keep you fuller longer. Avoid drinks other than your basic coffee or water, because things like juice can be hella sugary. If you need easy, healthy snacks to reach for try cheese & grapes, bananas, protein bars, raisins and nuts, applesauce, etc.
If you don't have time for big workouts, try doing a bit of tabata or hiit interval training either before work or after to tire yourself out before bed. Fitness Blender has a boatload of free workouts that require little to no equipment, and they offer modifications/alternatives to exercises for various fitness levels and abilities. Even a little bit of floor pilates or yoga will still burn calories, and help with strength and flexibility.
If you work at a desk you could try and get one of those little foot pedal thingies.
Hopefully at least a smidge of that was useful lol.
TheImaginariumGirl t1_j9nf9re wrote
Reply to [image] some of you are unaware… by verbselflove
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NoSchedule4275 t1_j9nez4x wrote
Reply to [story] I (M28) started a job as a nighttime security officer in January 2022, changing my lifestyle which made me gain some weight. After trying my short-sleeved uniform from last spring, I’m only now realizing how bad it’s gotten, not able to button a single button. Need to start to reverse this. by MisterOwl_94
Nights can be a huge shock to the system. Too easy to get shit food since anything open late is usually fast food or pizza, and really hard to motivate yourself into getting up for the gym since you always feel tired. I've been on nights for a few years and fell into that trap but was able to get things moving in the right direction. Crockpot meals are my go to now, easy to prep and cooks while you sleep then bam, meals for the whole shift. Foiling my windows/blackout curtains helped block every ounce of light to maximize sleep, and the rest is just finding that drive to get up and do something. Doesn't have to be much, every minute you're physically active is a minute more than what you would have done before. It all adds up into some big-time life changes, the most important thing is to just start no matter how small that first step is. Good luck!
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Reply to [story] I (M28) started a job as a nighttime security officer in January 2022, changing my lifestyle which made me gain some weight. After trying my short-sleeved uniform from last spring, I’m only now realizing how bad it’s gotten, not able to button a single button. Need to start to reverse this. by MisterOwl_94
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angelinavalenty t1_j9negca wrote
Reply to [image] some of you are unaware… by verbselflove
Love!
TheWrathOfSean t1_j9ndk8o wrote
I swear I’ve seen another version of this from like 10 years ago.
jtowndtk t1_j9nbt6n wrote
Reply to [image] some of you are unaware… by verbselflove
to all the people who are like this I am giving you a huge air hug, everyone can use a little up lift, it costs nothing but a few seconds and some actual thought and kindness
that-jackdaw OP t1_j9nbgli wrote
Reply to comment by CerealKiller3030 in I tend to doodle as I journal, and this helped me. [Image] by that-jackdaw
Sorry about the crappy handwriting lol. It says ‘fine’.
Unsure-of-Reddit t1_j9nbby0 wrote
Good visual. Often live in the gap instead of looking how far I’ve come.
Sfetaz t1_j9nbass wrote
Reply to [image] some of you are unaware… by verbselflove
Thank you Clarance, I hope to hear bells ring for you soon.
MinecraftVeteran001 t1_j9nofro wrote
Reply to [Discussion] How to start seeing the results you want. by Disciplineking
Einstein said something similar to this "Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration"