Recent comments in /f/GetMotivated
Jaredthewizard t1_j92btd4 wrote
Reply to [Text] I’m very happy, so I have no goals?! by Mooberry_
Pick up a new hobby! You never know what might really click with you and become a new passion.
CaptainTripps82 t1_j92ae6i wrote
Reply to comment by starjjong in [Image] 🎯 by mantasmark
I mean not really. There's a whole portion of what people think about you that doesn't really have anything to do with you
theyellowpants t1_j929prj wrote
Reply to comment by thequeasydream in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
I really recommend you circle back to who evaluated you or check in with even your GP.
Executive dysfunction is so real and debilitating - meds can help. Being dx and on meds changed my life
Shoel3ssJoe t1_j929icy wrote
Reply to comment by TextInteresting4449 in [Image] 50 empowering quotes from fictional female characters. by quitecanton91
Do you think Margaret Thatcher effectively utilized girl power when she funneled money into illegal paramilitary death camps in Northern Ireland?
Anandamine t1_j928ote wrote
Reply to [Text] I’m very happy, so I have no goals?! by Mooberry_
Does the goal have to be about attaining a physical thing? How about making an impact in your community? Learning an instrument? Trying your hand at any artistic pursuit? Solving a large issue that plagues your community, your city …. The world. Something you are passionate or can become passionate about. There’s a lot of suffering in the world that you could work toward alleviating.
thequeasydream OP t1_j928g7r wrote
Reply to comment by LordTindale in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
Thank you a lot!
thequeasydream OP t1_j928fdk wrote
Reply to comment by Environmental_Fig942 in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
I swear I have it. My 2nd grade teacher suspected it, but no conclusion that I can remember came from any dr I’ve seen throughout my life. But I have every single symptom, and pretty much every day it interferes with my work.
thequeasydream OP t1_j92871a wrote
Reply to comment by ampsby in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
Thank you!
thequeasydream OP t1_j92867u wrote
Reply to comment by Neither_Suspect2661 in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
Thank you for your input!
thequeasydream OP t1_j9284z5 wrote
Reply to comment by WatercressTop2942 in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
Thank you for your input!
Misubi_Bluth t1_j9284lz wrote
Okay can we talk about how Pocahontas WASN'T a fictional character, and calling her such is actually REALLY disrespectful???
thequeasydream OP t1_j9283b8 wrote
Reply to comment by Maximusprime-d in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
I started college but dropped out. I have 2 years worth of coursework, though. But never officially got my AA.
thequeasydream OP t1_j9281jn wrote
Reply to comment by cannahappy in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
Thank you!
thequeasydream OP t1_j9280gf wrote
Reply to comment by prima0donna in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
Thank you!
thequeasydream OP t1_j927yta wrote
Reply to comment by theyellowpants in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
My teacher thought I had it was a kid, I was tested for it as a kid but nothing came of it. I was tested for it again as an adult and I think the psych thought I had it, but don’t remember what the conclusion was (he talked a lot). I have every symptom though at work, pretty much every day.
la_lupetta t1_j927vrf wrote
Reply to [Text] How do you fix your life in your 30s after wasting about 8 years unemployed and living with family by sleeplessbearr
I think reading up about self sabotage can help you. It generally happens for one of several reasons including:
*success is scary because if you get good, you may have to work harder
*your self image is poor and succeeding at stuff would conflict with that which would feel uncomfortable
These are just two, but I think they are more likely than some others based on what you've written.
Good luck, and remember: the only time it's too late to take action is when you're dead.
thequeasydream OP t1_j927ou2 wrote
Reply to comment by RemoteMammoth6 in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
I think I might just try that. Have been thinking about it for a while now.
thequeasydream OP t1_j927li8 wrote
Reply to comment by foxpaws42 in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
Thank you!
Scoobz1961 t1_j927jtd wrote
Reply to comment by OsosFuriosos in [Image] 50 empowering quotes from fictional female characters. by quitecanton91
In my opinion it was a horrible line, but that doesnt matter. What matters is that "I am no man" is in no way motivational line.
ExiledCanuck t1_j927fqw wrote
Make one of these with empowering quotes for little boys.
Seems like the media is awash with empowering females while disparaging males. Sucks that people seem to think that in order to make things equal, you have to pull others down to lift yourself up. Sounds like what happens when people are drowning. I wish the world would lift everyone up, that way everyone can be awesome, together.
thequeasydream OP t1_j927408 wrote
Reply to comment by rdmgraziel in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
Thank you!
thequeasydream OP t1_j9273k7 wrote
Reply to comment by Old-Influence-9206 in [Text] I need to find a higher paying job, but self doubt makes me feel like I can’t handle any job by thequeasydream
Thank you 😊
Gloriathewitch t1_j9273fo wrote
Reply to comment by born_again_tim in [Image] 🎯 by mantasmark
Oh I'm flattered that you would ask but I don't have a page, I just recently got an iPad and started doodling, I'm really new to it, but I let my lack of skill deter me from trying, and I know I need to just keep drawing poorly so I can eventually get better. This op is what I needed to hear I think
afreakinchorizo t1_j926e43 wrote
Reply to comment by Celeste_0211 in [Image] 50 empowering quotes from fictional female characters. by quitecanton91
Therapist: Repeat after me, “The Iron Lady isn’t real, she can’t hurt me any more.”
APCoach t1_j92c0f7 wrote
Reply to comment by Mooberry_ in [Text] I’m very happy, so I have no goals?! by Mooberry_
Sounds like you might benefit from trying new things. Make it a scheduled thing: once a week, month, or whatever works for you, do a different new activity (like making a content calendar — but way better — bc it’s for your life). Pottery, a 5k, whatever feels new and challenging. If you’re not usually a thrill seeker, maybe switch it up and pick something a little more edgy — something that scares the bejeesus out of you (but also ignites a spark).
Actually, this is the BEST time to find a new passion. Bc you’re not frantic or trying to fill a hole; you’re simply asking more of yourself/life. Psychologically, a super healthy place to be coming from☺️