Recent comments in /f/GetMotivated
Chopper_Reid_ t1_j8mlzpj wrote
Reply to [image] Don't worry! by Yekduitin
There's also 25 more punishments.
NehEma t1_j8mlzjz wrote
Reply to comment by dollywooddude in [Image] The world will ask you who you are, and if you don't know, the world will tell you. by crm_expert
The world tells you a lot through social conditioning. Most of the things that we often deem as "natural" or "evident" are social norms. Have you ever been told to "man up" or that something is "not lady-like"? That's the world telling you who you are (or what it thinks you should be).
There are a lots of reasons for not knowing who you are. Lacking similar people around you is one possible reason.
imho it's motivating because it gives you other options than the miserable life you might've been ascribed.
SirVanyel t1_j8mloio wrote
Reply to comment by Igeticsu in [image] The happiness equation by crm_expert
Well, you're not gonna stop experiencing stuff, so why invite the misery of experiences you aren't currently having? That mental and emotional space could be better spent investing in yourself for the future you, a version of you that's better for relationships.
Doc580 t1_j8mlo3b wrote
Reply to [image] Don't worry! by Yekduitin
Yeah but if plan B fails, you better get a baby crib and stroller.
thaddeus423 t1_j8mliys wrote
Reply to comment by dollywooddude in [Image] The world will ask you who you are, and if you don't know, the world will tell you. by crm_expert
The world is going to demand and expect certain things from you.
Those things could differ depending on what sort of walk of life you’re on.
If you tend to wander aimlessly with no goals or are uncertain what you want to be in life (or vice versa) things will happen to you that you do not like, and things will happen to you that you do like. The same can be said for someone who has goals and doesn’t wander, but they might have a bit more identity figured out.
It’s up to you to sort through these things with your thoughts and your emotions and decide who you are or what type of person you’d like to be.
I think it’s motivating because a lot of us are lost.
A lot of us are just making it up as we go, trying to survive, seeing what sticks to the wall when we throw it, and doing whatever we can to make our weird little hearts happy in an otherwise short and unforgiving life.
If you don’t know who you are, life will show you.
And while incredibly terrifying, I’m enlightened.
SirVanyel t1_j8ml85p wrote
Reply to comment by JCPRuckus in [image] The happiness equation by crm_expert
Correct. You aren't able to control reality over the short term, but you can control how you react to it. It takes years, decades, to change your life, but you can change your reaction in weeks or months, and to be honest, removing that misery from your mental space will open up room for things that serve you better
umlcat t1_j8ml80u wrote
Reply to [Image] The world will ask you who you are, and if you don't know, the world will tell you. by crm_expert
Or "the world will give you it's own version", if you are not clear of your own version...
soiramio3000 t1_j8mjq7q wrote
Reply to comment by joomla00 in [Image] Potential without work, action is useless by crm_expert
>Your practice at the moment may be developing and testing techniques to optimize for team building.
Hm?what? Are you talking about what I am currently doing or what you believe that I should be doing?
You may want to rephrase that part.
thanyou t1_j8mjfra wrote
Reply to [image] The happiness equation by crm_expert
Sounds like giving up. "accept that you can't change things and the sooner you do you'll be 'happy'"
Pinky_- t1_j8mjcxp wrote
Reply to [image] Don't worry! by Yekduitin
ferrari energy
minhal786 t1_j8mjcgy wrote
Reply to [image]It cost nothing to be kind by startwithaidea
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Thyandar t1_j8mj6sb wrote
Reply to [image] The happiness equation by crm_expert
What nonsense.
My expectation is to not be fired, If I'm fired,
If every day I expect to be fired then I am fired, then i'm happy that I was right?
I'm unhappy not because of the gulf of expectation but because of reality.
Gazuba t1_j8mj5ca wrote
Reply to [image] Don't worry! by Yekduitin
I'm on plan ZZ. Its my top plan so far.
Larkson9999 t1_j8miobz wrote
Reply to comment by Dan_Rickardo in [image] Don't worry! by Yekduitin
Catch some Zs then.
dollywooddude t1_j8mikhj wrote
Reply to [Image] The world will ask you who you are, and if you don't know, the world will tell you. by crm_expert
I don’t fully understand. How will the world tell you? Why don’t you know? How is this motivating?
Watarenuts t1_j8midg1 wrote
Reply to [image] Don't worry! by Yekduitin
Wow, this just motivated me to become the most successful person in the world.
PorqueTaco t1_j8mhamv wrote
2 deep 4 me
Dan_Rickardo t1_j8mh4fd wrote
Reply to [image] Don't worry! by Yekduitin
I've exhausted every plan, from A to Y.
vbgvbg113 t1_j8mgupo wrote
Reply to comment by pale-blue-dotter in [image] Don't worry! by Yekduitin
the brute force method, you dont bother levelling up at all, you just punch the problem until it goes away
urthou t1_j8mg9jz wrote
Reply to comment by pistul_ in [image]It cost nothing to be kind by startwithaidea
That’s ironic coming from Morrissey lmao what the hell
nowneat t1_j8mfl8q wrote
Reply to comment by sgx71 in [image] Don't worry! by Yekduitin
Stop inventing!
pale-blue-dotter t1_j8mesb8 wrote
Reply to comment by vbgvbg113 in [image] Don't worry! by Yekduitin
I think level 100 only punching. No other skills lol
But now that my Plan A is about to be over, I have got a new project for new Plan A and I'm working towards upskilling myself for that.
Northhole t1_j8mejs9 wrote
Reply to comment by sgx71 in [image] Don't worry! by Yekduitin
The comment I was scrolling down to look for...
vbgvbg113 t1_j8medw2 wrote
Reply to comment by pale-blue-dotter in [image] Don't worry! by Yekduitin
you in games would stay at level 1 punching the final boss to death
[deleted] t1_j8mm3t2 wrote
Reply to [image] Don't worry! by Yekduitin
And if Plan Z fails, you’ve learned so much that you may want to think about teaching others before they retry your alphabet.