Recent comments in /f/GetMotivated
yanbag609 t1_j8i0irj wrote
Reply to comment by soiramio3000 in [Image] Potential without work, action is useless by crm_expert
loI i was quoting Albert Einstein.. sorry you suck at pokemon 🫤
faberge_eggs t1_j8i07o5 wrote
Reply to [image]Don't give up! by Yekduitin
But what to do if life pulling backward only shit but a lot? Make lemonade?
[deleted] t1_j8i02s4 wrote
Reply to [image]Don't give up! by Yekduitin
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sonofagun_13 t1_j8hzrkl wrote
Reply to How do you get yourself motivated when you've always been driven by threat/anxiety/trauma? [Discussion] by ElegantCherries
I relate totally. I don’t have any true words of wisdom other than to say I relate. It’s frustrating and something that always feels like an internal fight. I generally make lists of what ‘needs to be done’ and those days without any motivation I try to force myself to focus or appreciate getting some ‘small things’ accomplished. When lack of motivation hits, any accomplishments can be be big to you and it’s ok to treat small things like accomplishments when you feel like it’s all you can do. At least that’s my take.
ZephkielAU t1_j8hzfjm wrote
Reply to How do you get yourself motivated when you've always been driven by threat/anxiety/trauma? [Discussion] by ElegantCherries
Motivation is easy*, that's just doing what you want/ avoiding what you don't want. Not getting destroyed by a threat is pretty good motivation.
Discipline is a skill that you have to learn and practice. It's all about doing the things you don't want to do. That's hard when your primary motivators have historically been "don't die, don't get attacked, don't be poor, don't live on the street" etc, stuff like that.
You said you give things up after a month (presumably when you lose motivation)? Make it last 6 weeks. You don't start tasks until 2 weeks out? Make yourself start 3 weeks out.
Build the skill. Train it like a muscle. Start earlier, stay longer, push harder.
And give it time; progress is incremental not instant. If you're already succeeding, that's a pretty good foundation to start from. Now just get better at it.
*I don't mean getting motivated is easy, I just mean it's easy to do the things we want to do when we want to do them.
1stbaam t1_j8hzdqr wrote
Reply to comment by caoram in [Image] Potential without work, action is useless by crm_expert
Not sure why you're being downvoted. A lot easier to nurse potential when you're not doing 12 hours in the warehouse to get by.
ehho t1_j8hz7h9 wrote
Reply to comment by soiramio3000 in [Image] Potential without work, action is useless by crm_expert
Thats not true. You can improve at anything.
You need to put more time and attention to what you are doing according to your limitations. Thats where good teachers and coaches come into play.
Its rarely a race. Often its a marathon.
Joebiwan13 t1_j8hz7e7 wrote
What is happening in this picture 😂
1stbaam t1_j8hz1cf wrote
Replace inaction with 12 hour shift.
Evil_Bere t1_j8hywk6 wrote
Reply to [image] Keep going. by ImOkNotANoob
No they wouldn't. The only thing I accomplished is staying alive.
soiramio3000 t1_j8hygd8 wrote
Reply to comment by yanbag609 in [Image] Potential without work, action is useless by crm_expert
it is not called insanity.
it is not my fault that there are almost zero STRAIGHTFORWARD videos and articles on the internet on how to make good teams in competitive pokemon.
I have only watched exactly one video that was actually straightforward.
yanbag609 t1_j8hxw80 wrote
Reply to comment by soiramio3000 in [Image] Potential without work, action is useless by crm_expert
I believe that's called insanity
2351156 t1_j8hxon2 wrote
this picture is confusing. Took me time to get it.
traeisaac OP t1_j8hxngg wrote
Reply to comment by holly_hustle in [image] you’re not obligated to be toxic by traeisaac
sonofagun_13 t1_j8hwqta wrote
Reply to [image] The happiness equation by crm_expert
Happiness is expectations minus reality
LittleKitty235 t1_j8hwk59 wrote
Tripdrakony t1_j8hvwx1 wrote
Reply to [image]Don't give up! by Yekduitin
...... am i some sort of railgun bow mutation or why does it take so long
bricknovax0389 t1_j8hvtd1 wrote
Reply to comment by MEDED7 in [image]Don't give up! by Yekduitin
But it needs to expend copious amounts of precious fuel.
bricknovax0389 t1_j8hvryn wrote
Reply to comment by testicular-jihad in [image]Don't give up! by Yekduitin
I think maybe it means. When life pulls you back… make sure you focus on your aim throughout all that tension. After all… what good is movement without direction ? … also homeless people have mental health issues usually so that’s sad and another story as well .
Delicious_Ad_1853 t1_j8hvqed wrote
Reply to comment by joemondo in [image] The happiness equation by crm_expert
I agree and I think "reality" encapsulates all of that.
jasperfilofax t1_j8hvb3y wrote
Reply to [image]Don't give up! by Yekduitin
If you keep relying on analogies your going to be disappointed. This is just copium.
lightspeedx t1_j8hv9zh wrote
Reply to comment by Trips-Over-Tail in [image]Don't give up! by Yekduitin
Yeah. Op assumes I'm an arrow. What if I'm a grenade? Life is legit killing people by launching me forward.
AresAndy t1_j8huzhd wrote
Never heard of Wu Wei, eh?
BudwinTheCat t1_j8i0s4s wrote
Reply to [Image] Potential without work, action is useless by crm_expert
Me and my ADD here... feelsbadman