Recent comments in /f/GetMotivated
replytoanon t1_j8f0om1 wrote
Reply to [Image] Don't just wish for it ... by superfunny
Looks like we’re trying to move out of Linden, NJ
4354574 t1_j8f0o4t wrote
Reply to comment by Nytonial in [Image] Health is wealth. Once you lose it, then you realize how true the saying is by crm_expert
Yeah. It’s not a hierarchy of values, it’s a hierarchy of needs. As someone with a lot of health struggles who spends all their money on healthcare, yeah, I have no family, no 'career' and can’t pursue my dreams.
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Valdamier t1_j8f002p wrote
Reply to [image] Keep going. by ImOkNotANoob
Nope, no they wouldn't, but at least I've learned some things.
RemoteMammoth6 t1_j8eyqrs wrote
Reply to comment by tele68 in How do you get yourself motivated when you've always been driven by threat/anxiety/trauma? [Discussion] by ElegantCherries
ADHD
RevolvingCatflap t1_j8eya83 wrote
Reply to How do you get yourself motivated when you've always been driven by threat/anxiety/trauma? [Discussion] by ElegantCherries
I'm exactly the same. Fight, flight or freeze. Standby mode for everything else.
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The_drunken_monk t1_j8extyg wrote
Reply to comment by Jedihorseshit in [Image] Be the reason someone feels welcomed, seen, heard, valued, and loved. by sylsau
IDK why they downvoted you. Self-care is as important as care for others.
Longjumping_Owl_863 t1_j8exocc wrote
Reply to How do you get yourself motivated when you've always been driven by threat/anxiety/trauma? [Discussion] by ElegantCherries
Following. I have the same way about me.
bronzelifematter t1_j8exbkd wrote
Reply to [IMAGE] Be careful what you feed… by Rocky9711
The one you feed will be a spoiled dog who don't know how to hunt for itself.
Snaggel t1_j8ewpak wrote
Hustling is spending the best years of your life to exhaustion so you can rest when you're old and exhausted anyway.
Besides, most people who hustle don't even know what to do once they've accumulated enough and get back working anyway out of boredom, albeit it be something of their liking in all likelyhood since they may choose not to work and withdraw if whatever they're doing doesn't please them.
Kotopause t1_j8ewbb8 wrote
No I can’t. Because my past didn’t allow me to develop the means to start a new beginning.
Daddy616 t1_j8ew2fx wrote
Reply to [Image] Health is wealth. Once you lose it, then you realize how true the saying is by crm_expert
The fact that work and money come before family and dreams really bothers me.
Fuck this era of humanity.
Born on a world of abundance then making each other pay to live here.
Having the audacity to carry on the casual saying "you have to earn a living" implying you don't deserve to live here other wise is a monument to how Fucking stupid we all are.
lkayman30 t1_j8evw29 wrote
Reply to How do you get yourself motivated when you've always been driven by threat/anxiety/trauma? [Discussion] by ElegantCherries
I have the exact same issue. Severe childhood trauma. People think I'm doing well because I have a good job and home but in reality, I'm like you.
At work I can crush my goals but, at home I'm a month behind on laundry. I had to get a weekly house keeper to clean my house because I don't have the motivation to do but, I can't stand filth. It's so ridiculous to me but, honestly I don't know how to change it.
FanndisTS t1_j8ev49h wrote
Reply to comment by amy33amy33 in [Image] Health is wealth. Once you lose it, then you realize how true the saying is by crm_expert
Kinda? I'm barely even disabled and this is the first thing I've seen in a while that's actually offended me
the_phillipines t1_j8ev3h3 wrote
Reply to comment by DecalArtist in [Image] Health is wealth. Once you lose it, then you realize how true the saying is by crm_expert
My boss made this for sure
[deleted] t1_j8eu97l wrote
Reply to comment by gmrpnk21 in [Image] In the end, they'll judge you anyway. So, do what you want. by sylsau
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NebrasketballN t1_j8eu4v1 wrote
Reply to [Image] The Big Picture by ProfessionalDog
Don't let your endo say increasing your A1C isn't progress. /s
LeviathanGank t1_j8etlui wrote
Reply to [image] believe in you. by Royal_Tumbleweed_910
but i cannot fly
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zaphod_pebblebrox t1_j8et3w9 wrote
Reply to How do you get yourself motivated when you've always been driven by threat/anxiety/trauma? [Discussion] by ElegantCherries
Honestly, keep moving forward with your therapy. If you have made progress with your current therapist, keep going.
I look at it like a utility.
We need electricity and internet to work with the world. We need therapy to work with ourselves.
Just pour your heart out to your therapist and keep working with them.
You were a kid a long time ago when you collected these cobwebs. Today, you are an adult with limited you time to clean the cobwebs.
It will take time.
And a good gym. Healthy mind, healthy body.
captnmr t1_j8esu9j wrote
Reply to comment by DecalArtist in [Image] Health is wealth. Once you lose it, then you realize how true the saying is by crm_expert
This is a binary representation and money is a proxy for shelter, food, and other basic needs. It’s saying that you need food and shelter before you need family. Likewise, it’s not saying to quit your job and become a gym bro.
Throwaway_97534 t1_j8esgfr wrote
Totally untrue, all modern word processors can edit any part of the text.
4354574 t1_j8f0w2l wrote
Reply to comment by YouDownWithTPP in [Image] Health is wealth. Once you lose it, then you realize how true the saying is by crm_expert
I am, and haven’t.