Recent comments in /f/GetMotivated

ValyrianJedi t1_j7zwu1f wrote

I always run in to this at work. Job is heavily commission and bonus based so I've always busted my ass to do the best I can. But quotas are based on past performance to an extent, so when increase how much I choose to do it increases how much I have to do. To the point that now I'm stuck working 60+ hour weeks and spending 100 nights a year in hotels because I have to instead of because I want to, instead of being able to get away with 10-15 hours fewer when I feel like it. Shit really sucks

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Odisher7 t1_j7zurdu wrote

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I find that a bit negative. Then you have people that skip one day of gym and don't bother returning because they couldn't maintain their goal. Small/inconsistent progress is better than no progress, even if you skip a whole week, you can come back and keep going

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al3237 t1_j7zty8s wrote

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This must have been done by a freaking naive person for sure, life is nowhere nice enough to even allow the left to happen so easily

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Ouch-MyBack t1_j7zr5t1 wrote

I am a good mom, I really am. My daughter is very bright, honour roll most of the time. Her grades started slipping a bit and I had to admit it was as much my fault as hers. I had just 'let her go', thought she'd be fine. Well surprise to me, she thrives on encouragement and needs guidance. They need you. Kids need you.

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Eco_Chamber t1_j7zq4n7 wrote

Reply to comment by FullVinceMode in [IMAGE] by Lucadris

Consistent effort is important to change. Habits aren’t really habits without that.

Progress is a consequence of that, and it’s a lot less consistent. You try and fail and find new and better ways of getting progress for the effort you put in.

The key is that progress doesn’t come without effort. Sometimes it doesn’t come with effort, but never without. And that’s ok. Progress is not as predictable.

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sneaky_squirrel t1_j7zmrhw wrote

Reply to comment by NestroyAM in [IMAGE] by Lucadris

Nonsense!

Money, connections, and dad can't give you an edge over people without those.

Those people, well not people..., are irredeemable garbage that "chose to be destined" to fail of their own free will.

If you are fuming at this point, I'm joking.

Rich kids have it so hard, and are so brave and heroic, screw poor people. Effort my ass, money makes right!

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