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kwarre16 t1_j7kohpl wrote

Reply to comment by orangpelupa in [Image] Patience & Love by Fast_Ad7959

So basically, if you’re constantly only seeing the bad in something, comparing it to others, or insulting it, it’s hard to see the good! In this comic, the first monkey is being hard on his plant because he’s comparing it to others. But the other monkey makes him see that with a little love, patience, and time, good things happen! So whenever you’re having a hard time, remember to take a step back and be proud of yourself!

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mayafied OP t1_j7knyuz wrote

Reply to comment by fsocietyassasin in Think of yourself as a time-traveler, altering your future in the present moment with each choice. Every small action you take today will dictate the course of your future. [Text] by mayafied

I have a resource to help with that.

If you have a library card, check out Allen Carr’s book “The Easy Way to Stop Smoking” via the Libby app: https://share.libbyapp.com/title/847498

Or… oh god how did this get here i am not so good with computer

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Complex_Mango_5228 t1_j7kl7l8 wrote

Reply to [Discussion] 25 Y.O. Male Drifting Through Life. by Marcus_Krow

You're only 25 man. You are not supposed to have it figured out yet. Anyone thats 25 and says they have it all together is lying. With all of the events that have happened recently, people in their 20s-30s have been impacted the most truly.

I have ADHD as well, it does have an impact in how you develop your sense of self. All the things people told me as a kid emphasized how dumb and incapable I was. Sometimes I still believe that to be true, when its really not. My defense mechanism became dissociating, which I still struggle with at times. But it really helps to know how that impacted me and what my brain is telling me is false.

It can take time to find direction. Be patient with yourself and try new things.

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funlovefun37 t1_j7kj2zs wrote

Reply to comment by letmebeyoursadboi in Think of yourself as a time-traveler, altering your future in the present moment with each choice. Every small action you take today will dictate the course of your future. [Text] by mayafied

Hugs 🤗 internet friend. It does me too. My new mantra is overly simple. I keep repeating to myself PUSH PUSH PUSH. PUSH to be active because that is what lifts the blues temporarily. It can last all day or only a few hours. Active can be reading on the terrace, going to the gym, taking a shower. Anything to disrupt the settling darkness. (Of course meds, too.)

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ryerye22 t1_j7khrhc wrote

Reply to Think of yourself as a time-traveler, altering your future in the present moment with each choice. Every small action you take today will dictate the course of your future. [Text] by mayafied

Another way to look or approach this is to envision your future self ( next best version) has come back to help you tweak a small aspect or thing along the time continum that will help you get the best outcome ( Desired outcome) your aiming for or a happier today / life.

Watch Scott Bakula in Quantum Leap, old TV show.. He jumps thru time and becomes that person and has to help them change history for their better.

https://youtu.be/UreHaK6DO-s P. S I have no idea if this year's 2023 reboot on the show is any good.

Imagine Scott Bakula is YOU, he's beside you whispering into your ear guiding you :)

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Littleman88 t1_j7khiia wrote

Reply to comment by randomsharklaser in [Discussion] 25 Y.O. Male Drifting Through Life. by Marcus_Krow

>You'll get your shit together in your early 30s like everyone else, don't worry.

Disclaimer: Your mileage may vary.

Many 30 somethings are still drifting, so I wouldn't say "like everyone else." Especially those groups that graduated around 2008, or anyone that haven't found themselves in a relationship and friends because they just can't seem to find anyone.

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