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mjfjfhfhfh t1_j7987ax wrote

I feel like this is the Instagram motivational garbage that leads to very self centered people becoming very aggressive and toxic with entitlement. My gut tells me that the people who would interpret this in a healthy way and the people who need to hear this are unlikely to have very much overlap in the Ben diagram of life.

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First_Foundationeer t1_j78zxko wrote

Reply to comment by rob51i03 in [Image] cut. it. out. by Fast_Ad7959

Not so good? Sometimes, you need to make it so that the people you love are in different roles in your life to preserve that love.

And sometimes, you need to cut out dipshits in your life because you may have been conditioned to love your abuser, but it's probably best for you to cut them out.

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UmYeahMaybe t1_j78ytz3 wrote

Reply to comment by Higira in [Image] cut. it. out. by Fast_Ad7959

You seem to have inferred it might be advice on how to treat people, but it’s a vague statement that doesn’t in anyway refer to personal relationships. It resonated with me because I have been at my current job too long and it’s holding me back and I’ve been hesitant to let go.

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PM_ME_WITH_A_SMILE t1_j78vy9n wrote

Reply to comment by Symbiotx in [Image] cut. it. out. by Fast_Ad7959

Because it implies that everything around you is supposed to be for you? That's not how life works, at all, except for people who view themselves as more important than others around them.

Plus, like someone else said, "serving you" is different from "good for you."

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