I hear you. Being a good person involves lots of healthy boundaries. Otherwise there is an inevitable burnout. Boundaries with love is so important. No one can always be there for others, nor should they be even if they could. Sometimes people have to learn stuff the hard way even if we want to help. Caring and compassion can become codependency very quickly if it doesn’t stay within healthy lines. It’s our own responsibility to make sure we protect ourselves from overextension.

I’m so perpetually motivated I can barely sleep at night. It’s a real problem.

All the local trees are after my sunlight. Pigs!

Damn this hit home for me today than you for sharing

Well that's a separate issue same as "nice guy" syndrome where people are nice only because they want something not because they genuinely care.

I'm talking about those who are always up for helping others and end up having people pile on their toxicity on us, and we kinda just keep helping cause thats what we do. To the point where you end up getting abused and used and you don't know how to stand up for yourself and cut people off because it makes you feel like a bad person.

I can't speak for everyone but in my case I've had people abuse the fact that I'm always there for others and want to help any way I can. It's lead to some friendships turning into them using me for their own issues, and romantic relationships into me being abused and cheated on etc.

What you are describing is also an issue, but idk if that's what I'm talking about. I mean more people who are actually too nice and caring that they want to help the world and don't realize that one person can't, and don't know how to protect themselves when others take advantage.

Negative thoughts and emotions are something we all must cut it out of our lives.!

The people that have never been toxic to me I can count on 1 hand. It is what it is. But those are the real friends.

If being a good person is making you bitter, you might want to look at what “good” means to you. It isn’t something that should leave you bitter and drained. If it is, there’s motives and/or expectations there that aren’t truly good. That’s on you to look at and be honest with yourself about.

Love and respect is something that every person deserves. Self-love is a continuous process of becoming aware of and accepting your own needs, emotions, and experiences. It involves developing a positive relationship with yourself and treating yourself with kindness and compassion.

Is that motivating to you

My family wasn't giving me food/money/shelter anymore so I CUT them out ! Let's Go grinders.

It's important to hold urself accountable as well. Maybe ur life sucks because u suck.

What do you mean?

Some people don’t have a ladder, or cutters for that matter.

You responded to it

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Me too, I understand and I’m sorry for you.

My child refuses to do chores for me anymore. Time to CUT. THEM. OUT!

You aren’t going to find all you experience and observe to be helpful

This is not a helpful quote for the transcendence of death. Jus die in peace and smiling if you can

What if your goals are helping others.

I thought I was in r/OSHA for a second…

Awesome 👏

Very much so. Context is really important for blanket statements like this.

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