Recent comments in /f/GetMotivated
MercenaryBard t1_j74dt41 wrote
Bad people have changed my idea of what a good person is.
It’s not the polite smile on the sideline. It’s the angry grimace on the front line fighting for equity and Justice.
_Blackstar t1_j74cfwb wrote
Reply to comment by godofgutless in [Image] The choice is yours. by yadavhimanshu961
Paxton Fettel approves.
whatisalurker t1_j74ccoz wrote
Reply to [Image] The choice is yours. by yadavhimanshu961
I always told it meant: False Expectations Appearing Real and has helped me get through many situations I felt overwhelmed with fear going into.
Tahoeclown t1_j74bgg8 wrote
Reply to comment by ManBearPigAlive007 in [Image] by brotherkfh
Hard disagree
Jujunem t1_j74ax55 wrote
Reply to [Image] by brotherkfh
Kindness matters. So does the truth. Equally. Find balance in that. It’s not easy.
[deleted] t1_j74ahrz wrote
Reply to comment by hamletswords in [Image] Never stop being a good person because of bad people. by brisavaqy
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LongjumpingHand5452 t1_j749hdm wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in [Image] Never stop being a good person because of bad people. by brisavaqy
Unless it's illegal lol
Modern_Devil t1_j748kg3 wrote
Reply to comment by CaptainAksh_G in [Image] Never stop being a good person because of bad people. by brisavaqy
I don’t think of kindness as something where anyone can take advantage. Kindness doesn’t require an exchange. You can be kind without giving up anything and without appearing weak. You can be kind to every person the same without risking anything at all for the sake of being kind.
You should use the same caution with people that you always would. You should expect people to show you the same kindness that you show them. You should set boundaries and not tolerate disrespect. Nothing changes in this regard depending on kindness.
BuckRogers87 t1_j748i67 wrote
Reply to comment by godofgutless in [Image] The choice is yours. by yadavhimanshu961
This is the correct answer.
plstakemehomepls t1_j7469z7 wrote
Reply to comment by Dashimir in [Image] Never stop being a good person because of bad people. by brisavaqy
No.
Douglasjayfalcon1 t1_j745acl wrote
Reply to [Image] The choice is yours. by yadavhimanshu961
I have never heard anyone tell me to fear
Moonshadetsuki t1_j73xvhs wrote
Reply to [Image] The choice is yours. by yadavhimanshu961
Fantastic expectations, amazing revelations
Final execution and resurrection
Free expression as revolution
Finding everything and realizing
You got the fear
PeterGallaghersBrows t1_j73xi3v wrote
This is sooo hard to do
hamletswords t1_j73xbte wrote
Reply to comment by Rainhall in [Image] Never stop being a good person because of bad people. by brisavaqy
People who only respond to power dynamics (most people on Earth) learn they can't walk all over you. This benefits you.
Keep in mind there are more clever and more effective ways to hit back than "eye for an eye" but that's the simplest way to stand up for yourself and it's easily understood and respected by most people.
Sheet_Varlerie t1_j73vwka wrote
Reply to [Image] The choice is yours. by yadavhimanshu961
Focus. Endeavor. Attack. Rat.
Javamac8 t1_j73tpr2 wrote
Reply to [Image] The choice is yours. by yadavhimanshu961
Fuck everything, ami right?
jrtts t1_j73tggo wrote
Reply to [Image] On Decisions and Choices by i7user07
plot twist: the right decision is to pay your bills
so you pay either way
^(yay capitalism!)
throwingitaway724 t1_j73sri0 wrote
Reply to [Image] The choice is yours. by yadavhimanshu961
So my choices are fight or flight? That tracks.
Insomnambulant t1_j73s41b wrote
Reply to [Image] by cherrymasterlou
And incremental progress at that. Two steps forward, one step back is par for the course. Patience and self compassion are essential.
Verias83 t1_j73ryep wrote
Reply to [Image] The choice is yours. by yadavhimanshu961
First Encounter Assault Recon
jl_theprofessor t1_j73re4u wrote
Reply to comment by TheRockobis in [Image]Its just Practice. by haplessamora
Sure everyone has to practice, but not all people have the potential to improve equally.
>In a study published in PLoS ONE earlier this year, researchers from the University of Helsinki assessed people's musical creativity based on their ability to judge pitch and time as well as skills such as composing, improvisation and arranging. They found that the presence of one particular cluster of genes correlated with musical creativity. Crucially, this cluster belongs to a gene family known to be involved in the plasticity of the brain: its ability to reorganise itself by breaking and forming new connections between cells.
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> “Being artistic or creative is associated with the personality trait of being open to experiences,” Garrison says. “Some research suggests that there are neurobiological foundations for creative individuals. Based on all available information, it is very likely that the capacity for creativity is shaped by genetic influences –– it’s a complicated way of saying that creativity and artistic interests can almost certainly be inherited.”
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>"The people who are better at drawing really seem to have more developed structures in regions of the brain that control for fine motor performance and what we call procedural memory," she explained.
jl_theprofessor t1_j73q61o wrote
Reply to comment by Aid01 in [Image]Its just Practice. by haplessamora
No matter how much you practiced, you would never be as good a swimmer as Michael Phelps or as good a basketball player as Michael Jordan. You would never be as quick a thinker as Stephen Hawking. There are fundamental biological differences that orient people toward being naturally better at some things than others that if given equal practice, the person with the natural gifts will excel more in. That isn't a bad thing, it is the crux of humanity to have different people of different talents that should motivate people to rely and build together.
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Reply to [Story] I have succeeded both mine and my parents’ expectations by 18. by Ok-Cauliflower2900
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Darnell5000 t1_j73lmnr wrote
Reply to [Image] The choice is yours. by yadavhimanshu961
Fear does have two meanings technically
As a noun - an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat.
As a verb - be afraid of (someone or something) as likely to be dangerous, painful, or threatening.
Puzzled_Grapefruit_2 t1_j74dyj2 wrote
Reply to [Image] Never stop being a good person because of bad people. by brisavaqy
Too late.