Hmmm.. they’re ok 😭 I like babies and toddlers (I used to volunteer at an early years daycare) but not so much of the kids around 6-10 years old

I hope we’ll get something soon 🙏🙏

Ohhhh that’s so true!! What a smart idea. I’ll be doing all of those things! I’ll start on Python. Thank you so much!

Ohh I see, thank you so much!!

Wow, thank you so much for taking the time to write out these tips!!! I really really appreciate it and will be adding these to my routine 🙏

Do the right decisions count if others don’t go along with them? I’m going with that one if so, because I keep making the right decisions - especially with work - and extremely incompetent people keep ruining it.

Call that a FRISCO in the word wars

The key there is that you said, "How I dealt with it." A lot of people can't even do that. They are paralyzed by it. You have great outlook in that you keep moving forward. That's amazing.

Your dad, that's big one to carry. I don't have that exact pain but a different kind of heavy Gorilla I carry around~(and I subscribe to the idea or preach, "I only have space for the good in my life at this time.")

But this helped me the other day,

Forgive yourself for having that dad, it's not your shame/anger? to carry around. Shame on him.

Find a picture of the little you and put it on your phone or near your computer. Remember him/her and give the love and self care talk that that kid deserved, instead of the memories that might pop up. Change how you spend that energy of hating your dad to healing that innocent kid. Re write the script for healing yourself.

"Give up hope for a better past"

You have now.

You deserve LOVE.

Warm heart, cold eyes.

It's not fear, per se. Being cautious while being kind is good too.

Being kind with a cautious mind is important because people are willing to take advantage. You'll end up creating more problems than creating a positive mindset among others is what I'm saying.

Be kind always, but be wary of who you're being kind to

No

Don’t let fear prevent you from being kind.

I disagree with this.

That's a GREAT goal Cauliflower! I think you can do it. Well, we know we don't have to worry about you :) You got this!

My biggest goal in life is to find or work towards a cure for degenerative dementia. That is a FAR reach but maybe if I work hard enough I’ll get there :)

The best part about being a nurse is that you can keep going and keep investing in yourself until you get to Nurse Practitioner and make decent money.

Always remember to shoot for the stars. The satellites and GPS you use everyday were not invented by people trying to get electronics into low Earth orbit. They were trying to colonize Mars and the Moon. Aim high. Aim for the stuff you thought was impossible 5 years ago and you will go far.

You're gonna see failure. You might lose that lease, you might lose that job, you might have to break up that relationship. Don't worry about that, just take a note and keep going. You're gonna go far if you keep fighting.

I knew I was forgetting something

Lol as someone who has been one of these "good" people for a long time, it's hella hard to not get bitter. As you get older, it really becomes about allocation of energy and time.

Being a good person doesn't mean just being kind and generous. It means to be that WHILE being cautious and careful

Being a good person doesn't mean just being kind and generous. It means to be that WHILE being cautious and careful

Here's a classic quote to inspire you to face your fears:

> "Feel the fear and do it anyway." - Susan Jeffers

This quote reminds us that fear is a natural human emotion, but it doesn't have to stop us from pursuing our goals and dreams. By acknowledging our fears and taking action despite them, we can build confidence and overcome our limitations.

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I face my problems. Starts vigorously levitating and vibrating

"And" doesn't get a letter

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