Recent comments in /f/GetMotivated
pedestrianpinniped t1_j6bzv9x wrote
Reply to comment by ASK_IF_IM_PENGUIN in [Image] Marcus Aurelius and his ten rules by kuroninjaofshadows
I'm still not getting it, Putin obviously treats the West different than others, way more hostility and paranoia, way less success at bullying. No one that's been paying attention for the last 20 years is particularly surprised that Putin's gonna Putin, but it is surprising to see him drop the ball this hard.
multigrain-pancakes t1_j6bzray wrote
Reply to comment by yuffieisathief in [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
Yes! I, as well! Crazy how shit turns from bad to good and vice versa. Such is life
givemeabreak432 t1_j6bzh98 wrote
Reply to comment by satxgoose in [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
I don't think that she has that. She definitely suffers from anxiety, but it's expressed differently than that. Adjustment Disorder makes sense though.
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RooDrools t1_j6bz5pg wrote
Reply to comment by 10000thmaniac in [Discussion] Fed up? Bored? Fed up with being bored? Ready to get on with the rest your life? by EERMA
i’m praying for your well being! 🙏stay strong!
BigNorseWolf t1_j6byeyx wrote
Reply to comment by spermbanks in [Image] Marcus Aurelius and his ten rules by kuroninjaofshadows
Humans haven't changed much
BigNorseWolf t1_j6bydvi wrote
Generally good ideas, but hard disagree on number 7.
I mean, you can largely decide how you react or not. You can walk away, blow them off, or punch them in the face. But peoples control over their thoughts is kind of limited.
KhaleesiDog t1_j6by2z4 wrote
Reply to [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
You have everything you need to be happy right now. Chasing a future happiness is a losing race that always leads to suffering. Things get better today, because today is all we’ll ever have!
satxgoose t1_j6bxzy2 wrote
Reply to comment by givemeabreak432 in [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
You can’t tell her that and your therapist won’t know without him depth one on one with her; just YouTube BPD and relationships and you will know quite easily for yourself. It will at least solve a curiosity.
givemeabreak432 t1_j6bxsnw wrote
Reply to comment by satxgoose in [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
Maybe I'll talk with the therapist about it. I'm doing one on one sessions with him as well as couples counseling.
The thing is, she hasn't agreed to more one on one sessions either yet, just the couples counseling. Hopefully the therapist can get her to go, cause i definitely can't tell her.
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Reply to [Image] just something to think about by xiaonei021
It helps so much!!!
white-dumbledore t1_j6bwrsv wrote
Reply to [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
Can go both ways. Went the wrong way for me.
I'd give anything to go back to where I was 6 months ago.
This isn't motivation. This is just a generic and kind of dumb thing to say.
fridafriesfriesfries t1_j6bwkg7 wrote
Reply to [story] 6 months ago vs now by ArturitoNetito
Fantastic. Thank you for sharing your inspirational story. Keep it up!
satxgoose t1_j6bwa2v wrote
Reply to comment by givemeabreak432 in [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
Never heard of that one; but BPD has a similar category; there are 10 categories and need only 5 of 10 for BPD.
givemeabreak432 t1_j6bvzuq wrote
Reply to comment by satxgoose in [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
No, the counselor believes it's Adjustment Disorder.
satxgoose t1_j6bvnqy wrote
Reply to comment by Pikespeakbear in [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
Yeah
satxgoose t1_j6bvmz7 wrote
Reply to comment by givemeabreak432 in [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
Was it borderline personality disorder? YouTube it and let me know. It’s always sudden without a sign it’s coming.
LordJosh286 t1_j6bvjl8 wrote
Reply to [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
6 months ago I was working salary for a job for a company I truly believed I would be retiring with. However I found out that they were taking advantage of my willingness to be a “team player” and work 60 hour weeks giving up time with family and girlfriend who I’ve been with for 7 years. They even wanted me to skip my girlfriend’s grandmother’s funeral to cover a shift. On top of that I was always made fun of in meetings and on my days off behind my back and eventually started receiving workplace bullying. I was fired once i stood up for myself.
Today Im in a new job with a company (making less but I’m hourly) and they are one of the best companies in the area to work for. Sometimes it takes putting yourself first to be happy and take care of yourself. Now I can be with family and my girlfriend and have a bigger team Im working in so i can have days off and vacations. Their loss is how i see it
ASK_IF_IM_PENGUIN t1_j6bv6u0 wrote
Reply to comment by pedestrianpinniped in [Image] Marcus Aurelius and his ten rules by kuroninjaofshadows
No, I'm saying the opposite. The West shouldn't have expected him to behave towards us any differently than he treats anyone else.
Posthumoushangry t1_j6buyni wrote
Reply to [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
Roughly 4 months ago I was in prison facing 11 years. It scared me straight and I went into overdrive after being released early and the charges dropped. I came out with $8 to my name. I now live in an immaculate and beautiful home and recently started a job that I am not at all formally qualified for in aero space engineering. Ive taken chances and in a lot of ways been very lucky but I'm amazed at what I've accomplished in such a short time. I'm completely sober and weaponized. Looking forward to the future with renewed hope and a clear head.
Grubwormgummybear t1_j6btp9q wrote
Reply to [story] 6 months ago vs now by ArturitoNetito
Thanks for your story. It made my day better
startwithaidea t1_j6btftt wrote
Reply to [story] 6 months ago vs now by ArturitoNetito
❤️🤗 thank you for this, it is timely. I’ve been crying a bunch more of late due to a similar feeling of late.
Yeah thank you ❤️
SickOfEverthing t1_j6bt1l2 wrote
Reply to [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
This has been so very true for me… I’ll have 6 months of sobriety in a week and a half. Fully paid off my credit cards, lost a TON of weight, and in a much better headspace now. Can’t wait to see how the next 6 months will go 🥰
riotblade76 t1_j6bt14l wrote
Reply to [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
I've just been in a breakup 2 days ago. Would this work for me?
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Reply to [Image] "6 months from now" by Butterflies_Books
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