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JaKr8 t1_jd564si wrote

You don't hear very often about people getting punished for missing jury duty,. I imagine if it's the 1st time it's happened and it sounds like you have a good reason. , you would probably be okay

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JaKr8 t1_jd55zmn wrote

I already pretty much end up tipping 25% at a regular restaurant Unless the server is a complete tool, and 15% at a counter restaurant, so I really don't have an issue with this. It might bring me back down to twenty percent for a table server. In the end it's just a shell game for me.

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daybeers t1_jd53wbe wrote

yes, but it fluctuates wildly depending on weather, economy, and either way it still comes from how much the customer is willing to pay. I'd gladly pay more for food so servers and other tipped staff can earn a living wage and have tipping optional for really exceptional service like most other countries.

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Onyourmixtape t1_jd52a5x wrote

We do heartgard and nexgard. Tried simparico trio but gave one dog very bad diarrhea, so stopped even though it was the most convenient. Also tried bravecto but since it’s every 3 months it was hard for us to remember to give/reorder. If teeth are the issue, maybe try smashing the heartgard up in a little unsalted peanut butter/wet food. We do that because one dog won’t eat it otherwise.

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WengFu t1_jd51vjc wrote

They will send you a cranky letter in a few weeks. I missed jury duty this summer (accidentally went on the wrong day) and I got a letter a few months later with instructions on how to resolve my issue. They ended up counting my wrong day as service.

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EdLoweLaw OP t1_jd4z7aj wrote

Congratulations to you and your wife, friend! It all depends on your estate planning goals, but if you’re concerned about avoiding the probate process you can probably skip the trust until you have real estate, because you can always use beneficiary designations for most assets. Wills, POAs, and healthcare documents may be all you need.

HOWEVER, if you do end up creating a will, there will be something called a “testamentary” trust built within it to protect and manage assets for your bambino should you and your wife die before they reach a certain age. This type of trust is under the probate court’s jurisdiction, which many people like or don’t like depending on how they feel about a lot of different things. Often, people will opt to create a revocable living trust with the primary goal of allowing a minor beneficiary’s inheritance to be managed privately, rather than through the court.

If you meet with an estate planning attorney for a consultation, they should be able to get to the heart of what’s most appropriate for you, your wife, and the little one. As the family grows, so should the estate plan. Congratulations again!

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