Recent comments in /f/Connecticut

ErrantEris t1_j8s19bb wrote

We've had a nice experience at Diamond Nail in Middletown. Very clean, and professional. They kept complimenting my fiancées hands and were perfect on correct pronouns.

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andherewestand OP t1_j8rybth wrote

Because there are varying stages of transition for trans people. They deserve to be treated equally whether it's "obvious" or not. I'm glad to live in a place that's considered trans friendly, but the experiences she's had still happened here, so I'm just trying to garner recommendations to try and help her avoid that.

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DarkLamont t1_j8rxnvs wrote

How could the nail salon employees tell they were trans? Are you sure they were upset with their genitalia or maybe it's something else? We're like in the top 3 for trans friendly states, I'm not being a dick.

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DarthLysergis t1_j8rwmu8 wrote

You can't go into it expecting the worst. This is Connecticut. Not rural Kentucky. Go in, ask for what you want, in a way that says "I'm here paying for your services" and either they are going to say, here's your chair (nearly 95 percent likely) or there's the door, which again, were in CT.

And if they are the kind of asshole that would refuse your business, tell them you wouldn't let those hack jobs touch your fabulous nails and walk out like a boss

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TofuTheBlackCat t1_j8ruyj4 wrote

I have seen men at Charm Nails in Farmington, and they are very nice to everyone as far as my experience goes. I'm sorry I can't speak to how a trans person would be treated, as I have never noticed, but that's my best suggestion <3

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JennLegend3 t1_j8rtgjn wrote

Linda's Beauty Nails in South Windsor is my suggestion. I've been going there for a few years now and I've seen all types of people in there, including trans people. I, myself, am not trans but I have definitely had negative experiences in places because of how I look (colored hair, tattoos, piercings, wears all black). Linda and her team are nothing but welcoming and kind. I've never seen anyone there treat anyone with disrespect.

Also everyone there does amazing work it's very worth it!

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Just_Jer t1_j8rta3g wrote

People who do nails want money...they'll paint anyone's nails. I used to go with my wife to the nail/spa place and they'd always ask me if I wanted my nails painted after they were done with the pedicure, because then they could charge us more.

I think sometimes people confuse transphobia with not kissing your ass. If you want the red carpet rolled out for you just because you belong to a certain group, you're gonna have a bad time wherever you go. If you want your nails painted and to be treated just the same as any other customer, you should be fine anywhere...

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