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Excellent_Tadpole538 t1_iyf3hs3 wrote

Reply to Liberals of Reddit, what’s one topic you’re with the conservatives on? by [deleted]

Abortion. But I mean it depends. But for the most part I strongly don’t believe it’s not fair for the child to suffer for something that’s not their fault.

But at the same time if it’s like a younger girl like 12 or 13 they also shouldn’t be forced to have a baby that young. And the adoption systems crap too.

However the majority of abortion cases aren’t really of things like that, or for even health reasons. Often I feel like it tends to be women who fucked and didn’t want a kid so they just got rid of the kid.

Personally if your not ready for a kid at all then don’t have sex. You can have sex for pleasure don’t get me wrong but like there’s always a risk even if it’s super small, so if you are definitely not in a position to have a kid if you had a accidental pregnancy you’d be super ducked then you shouldn’t chance it.

Plus it’s not even like you can’t have sexual pleasure you can still do like oral with other people and feel sexually satisfied without penetration. Aborting a kid when you willingly had penetrative sex with someone but decided your not in a place to raise a kid is so wrong.

Plus as fucked up as the adoption system is I’ve met many people who were adopted and have very happy lives still and there’s many successful people who were adopted as well. It at least gives them a chance at it they wouldn’t otherwise get.

I also want to clarify just cause you’ve gotten an abortion that doesn’t make you a terrible person or anything and I feel like many of the women who do get abortions like they can often be under a lot of stress, they often don’t fully understand what it’s doing to the baby or what it is. And for many it’s not even their choice a lot of the time.

I also for the reasons stated above especially for health reasons or for children do not think it should be illegal, and I also do recognize planned parenthood does a lot of great stuff for women. I also think each case of it can still differ and as much as in certain cases I may disagree with it it should still be up the the woman carrying the child. Also as they are the ones carrying the child and unless the father of said child plans on supporting the woman throughout her pregnancy, and financially supporting her as well and the child after or even taking custody of the child depending on the situation then he shouldn’t get a say in it. And for cases of rape, he definitely shouldn’t get a say in it at all regardless.

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