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Puzzled-Surprise-250 t1_iyeyryy wrote

*Disclaimer: I’m not a man.

This. Does he also like YOU or just the attention you give? Because if it’s not you, one day he’ll find someone he likes and leave you to pursue them. I like when people I’m interested in keep in touch frequently, but I would never word it as “I like you BECAUSE you give me attention.”

I think if you had to ask you already know the answer. He’s stating in not so many words that he likes feeling desired. It’s an ego boost in his offseason. I say run.

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RealBlackHair t1_iyeypf1 wrote

He could like you, obviously he might not. Those saying they know based on this one thing are lying to you. He might have meant "I like you because I feel you listen to me and genuinely want to spend time with me" or he could mean "I'm lonely and you're easy". I reiterate, no one, not me or any of the other bozos in this comment section know which one he meant, because none of us have every met him.

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Jail_Chris_Brown t1_iyeykx8 wrote

It means that you giving him attention is a thing he likes about you. If it is the sole thing he deems likeable about you or rather the only thing he desires in someone, then run. If it's just one thing among many, then it's not necessarily a red flag.

Many men receive barely any compliment throughouts their whole life, which is why they remember the few ones they got. Some men don't even receive attention (loners, outcasts etc.), so just your attention will be a light in the dark to them.

Though, I'd say in most cases it's a red flag.

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playingwithechoes t1_iyeybl0 wrote

I will always try to adequately repair before replacing something's that broken.

I can not stand damaged walls, floors, or ceilings in my own quarters. Have to have everything ship shape.

I do not tolerate bugs. I lived in several places as a renter that turned out to have bug problems. At one point, detonated a six pack at once of bug bombs and the buggers still survived.

I view ever purchase, frivolous or required, in terms of hours of work necessary to acquire it.

I splurge on Christmas gifts for friends and family. If I give you something, it means I want you to have the joy of nice gifts.

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the_bollo t1_iyey4fz wrote

Man, lots of people jumping to conclusions here. It's possible that they're just attention starved so it's nice to feel like someone is prioritizing them. Women get SO many more compliments, comments, etc. than men on average and it can take a toll. An old lady called me handsome in the grocery store like 3 years ago and it still pops into my mind because it's so rare to get comments as a man.

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