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BekahBeks t1_j6pafmd wrote

Reply to How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514

I’m sorry you’re going through this, but you shouldn’t be too harsh with yourself, you’re human like everyone else. We all mess up and we’re always harder on ourselves than anyone else. After being hurt in a relationship, whether it’s emotional/mental/physical abuse, infidelity, it can be super hard to allow yourself to be vulnerable in a future relationship. I can totally relate to that feeling. Keeping people at a distance provides a feeling like you’re protecting yourself from being hurt. It’s hard to fully trust someone even and especially when you love them very much, because of fear of having your heart broken again. I’ve been struggling with changing that behaviour myself and healing as much as possible through therapy etc. so I don’t eff up my current relationship. Forgiveness usually comes with time, I hope you’ll find a way to be kind to yourself and learn from going through tough times so you can grow and next time hang onto the love that you find.

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Material_Joke1324 t1_j6pabzj wrote

Reply to What is an automatic sign of a bad person? by CulturalClick4061

Mistreating people, like customer service folks, nurses, waiters, etc. Every time I'm at Walgreens, there's some old person yelling about their meds and it always turns out to be them just being cranky. You don't get to be an asshole to people just because you're in pain.

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Some-Ad-8706 t1_j6pa97b wrote

Reply to People who are pro life, why? by sia_q

Because life begins at conception. If you don't want to be pregnant, then don't have sex. I know it's a hard concept to understand for people but it's the only method guaranteed to be 100% at preventing pregnancy.

I don't understand why people are pro choice.

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